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41 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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Some might say I am an excellent planner, can contemplate the universe, am good with my hands, can lift heavy objects, cook a mean meal & give a fantastic foot massage...not at the same time, but quite possibly in that order ;). Others might call me a man of a thousand faces. I do march to the beat of my own drum and my drummer is sort of like Neil Peart when he's tearing it up. I can be verbose, but never tedious. I'm here to meet a sweet, fun, intelligent woman. I'd like to hear what's on your mind. Life is a stack of memories that we each stitch together in our minds, is it not? I'm a pretty open person and I both talk freely & listen well. I'm sure you have an interesting story to tell & I'd love to hear it.
What I’m doing with my life
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Independent filmmaking - big enough budgets to require quite a bit of planning & equipment. If you're interested, ask & I'll tell, but don't feel like advertising it here. I'll say there is a division of labor, but a fair amount of cross training. It can be gritty & you've gotta have stamina & moxie. It's not overly compartmentalized like the huge studio projects, but it's sure as hell not boring. I write horror stories in my spare time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Editing, illustration (sketch art), writing sketch comedy, playing keyboards, cooking. I used to play quite a bit of tennis, so I could still claim to be good at that, but I haven't picked up a racquet in awhile.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depending upon the scenario - a sincere man who holds his head high & gives a firm handshake while looking you in the eye, or a memorable, firm hug...or...a unique looking, long-haired throwback to a time when car engines rumbled and wah wah guitars could be heard on every FM radio station. If we start a dialogue, I can entertain & charm you. You'll notice a deep well of compassion & a low tolerance for all things superficial & vapid. Note - I grew long locks and side 'chops to portray a character. I had a hand in creating him & I wanted him to look like a cross between something that blew in from about 1971, off the cover of a dust collecting offbeat rock album and a buddy character in a cult horror movie. I created him, I'm wearing the mask of him in my daily life now, & I'm sort of enjoying the look. But just so you know, I do pull my hair back & neaten up before a date. And no, the vest is not a personal wardrobe choice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - 'The Sun Also Rises' 'The Ambassadors' 'The Shining' 'The Time Traveler's Wife' 'Die Glocke.' Movies - 'A Clockwork Orange' 'Time After Time' 'The Philadelphia Experiment' 'Amadeus' 'Raising Arizona' 'Office Space' 'Scent of a Woman.' TV Shows - 'The Prisoner' (60s, with Patrick McGoohan), 'Lost' 'Lost In Space' (thank you HuluPlus) 'Fringe' 'Sliders' 'Heroes' 'Night Gallery' (yes, the old series hosted by Rod Serling) 'American Horror Story.' Music - 'Toad the Wet Sprocket' 'Jonas Steur' 'Eric Johnson' 'Wendy Carlos' 'Spirit' 'Led Zeppelin' 'Nirvana' 'Aphex Twin' 'Cloud Cult' 'The Doors' 'Jefferson Airplane' 'The Beatles' 'U2' 'The Cure' 'Psychedelic Furs'
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A good woman in my life would make me a happy guy. My kingdom for a horse! Water, water everywhere & not a drop to drink! Keeping fingers crossed & rolling the dice. Good seafood (I can go for awhile without, but in a world without seafood, I'd be sad), great television & film writing, music, enough money to be happy, a pill that would extend my life forever, so I could live like the little robot boy from 'AI' only the adult version - plus I'd want all my parts to be human ;).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Quantum physics, nature, cooking, writing, scary things, design, music, travel & women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing, making notes on movies or shows I watch on Netflix, HuluPlus & the like, cooking up something new, enjoying a good beer with good tunes playing in the background. I'd like to find a lovely, fun, clever, cool lady to join me at a drive-in double feature, or with whom I could grab a brew or two at a local watering hole, haunt a donut shop, or spend a quiet evening at home with some wine & a good movie or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Gee - I dunno. I have a "blankety-blank." Two words. Chat with me for awhile & the reveal will come. Leaving a little mystery is always more interesting.
You should message me if
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Not exclusively, but as a guideline...

you an hold your own in a conversation about film & TV.

you like 60s/70s/80s music (for instance, you like the following):

my Friday night date ideas sound appealing