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41 Los Angeles, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 29
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm strong - both mentally and physically, I write prolifically, I paint, I cook often and I can get lonely when I'm not doing these things. So rather than become obsessive about my work and hobbies, I'm here to put in the time to meet someone who makes me want to spend my free time with her. No bones, no beans. I am a firm believer in stating what I want and not wasting anyone's time. The journey may have a few starts, stops and misfires, but I search with due diligence. Give me that balance I need in my life so I don't become a freak with ceiling high stacks of short stories and bizarre paintings in every corner. Oh, I love doing both those things, just help me prune my tendencies, so I don't bury myself with my creations. Let me look forward to some Netflix with you, or massaging your feet after a long day over a glass or two of wine. Let's get out on the tennis court.
What I’m doing with my life
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Independent filmmaking. Though I shuffle around in many different areas of production, I really enjoy video editing. I came into the fold as a writer (former newspaper section editor). And when I have insomnia at night, I find myself writing science fiction and horror short stories. That ball of wax has grown pretty large. Maybe you could, help put me to sleep at night. As I mentioned in the last section, I paint. I actually create frames and canvases with a good friend and partner who also paints, and then draft sketches and paint with acrylics. I do this as time allows. My life is many things, but it's not boring. It is missing a good woman, though.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing (comedy/sci-fi/horror), character development (I spent years writing sketch performance - mainly comedy), painting (some would say), cooking (I say, and I used to own a small restaurant, so others will vouch for me on this), consuming all of the above with voracious zeal.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depending upon the scenario - a sincere man who holds his head high & gives a firm handshake while looking you in the eye, or a memorable, firm hug...or...a unique looking, long-haired throwback to a time when car engines rumbled and wah wah guitars could be heard on every FM radio station. If we start a dialogue, I can entertain & charm you. You'll notice a deep well of compassion & a low tolerance for all things superficial & vapid. Note - I grew long locks and side 'chops to portray a character. I had a hand in creating him & I wanted him to look like a cross between something that blew in from about 1971, off the cover of a dust collecting offbeat rock album and a buddy character in a cult horror movie. I created him, I'm wearing the mask of him in my daily life now, & I'm sort of enjoying the look. But just so you know, I do pull my hair back & neaten up before a date.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - 'The Sun Also Rises' 'The Ambassadors' 'The Shining' 'The Time Traveler's Wife' 'Die Glocke.' Movies - 'A Clockwork Orange' 'Time After Time' 'The Philadelphia Experiment' 'Amadeus' 'Raising Arizona' 'Office Space' 'Scent of a Woman.' TV Shows - 'The Prisoner' (60s, with Patrick McGoohan), 'Lost' 'Lost In Space' (thank you HuluPlus) 'Fringe' 'Sliders' 'Heroes' 'Night Gallery' (yes, the old series hosted by Rod Serling) 'American Horror Story.' Music - 'Toad the Wet Sprocket' 'Jonas Steur' 'Eric Johnson' 'Wendy Carlos' 'Spirit' 'Led Zeppelin' 'Nirvana' 'Aphex Twin' 'Cloud Cult' 'The Doors' 'Jefferson Airplane' 'The Beatles' 'U2' 'The Cure' 'Psychedelic Furs' Authors - Philip Dick, Stephen King, Ray Bradbury, Isaac Asimov, Dean Koontz
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends
Reliable transportation
Delicious food
Women with shapely legs (honestly - can't live without them)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Quantum physics, nature, cooking, writing, scary things, design, music, travel & women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing, making notes on movies or shows I watch on Netflix, HuluPlus & the like, cooking up something new, enjoying a good beer with good tunes playing in the background. I'd like to find a lovely, fun, clever, cool lady to join me at a drive-in double feature, or with whom I could grab a brew or two at a local watering hole, haunt a donut shop, or spend a quiet evening at home with some wine & a good movie or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Gee - I dunno. I have a "blankety-blank." Two words. Chat with me for awhile & the reveal will come. Leaving a little mystery is always more interesting.
You should message me if
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Not exclusively, but as a guideline...

you an hold your own in a conversation about film & TV.

you like 60s/70s/80s music (for instance, you like the following):

my Friday night date ideas sound appealing