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40 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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For those who are curious - I have shaved the front portion of my facial hair, leaving 'chops on the side, and I wear my head hair in a ponytail now. Some might say I am an excellent planner, good with his hands, can lift heavy objects, cook a mean meal & give a fantastic foot massage...not at the same time, but quite possibly in that order ;). Others might call me a man of a thousand faces. I do march to the beat of my own drum. I can be verbose (I literally had to cut the essay section of my profile like a hedge to get it to a reasonable length), but never tedious. I'm here to meet a sweet, fun, intelligent woman. I want to hear what's on your mind. I want to get to know you & if you might be the woman I seek, I want us to do fun things together...relaxing, fun interesting things, I will state that if you write one-to-two word answers, don't fill out the q&a section (hey - that's the most interesting part!), or simply rely on a few well-taken pics of yourself (though those are appreciated) I really don't have much to go on when I write you. With that said, if this describes you, and you have an interesting question or comment, or want to tell me a little about yourself, by all means just drop me a line. I'm sure you have an interesting story to tell & I'd love to hear from you. I'm open, direct, pretty fun & looking forward to meeting a like-minded compatible woman.
What I’m doing with my life
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Independent filmmaking - big enough budgets to require quite a bit of planning & equipment. If you're interested, ask & I'll tell, but don't feel like advertising it here. I'll say there is a division of labor, but a fair amount of cross training. It can be gritty & you've gotta have stamina & moxie. It's not overly compartmentalized like the huge studio projects, but it's sure as hell not boring.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Editing, illustration (sketch art), writing sketch comedy, playing keyboards, cooking. I used to play quite a bit of tennis, so I could still claim to be good at that, but I haven't picked up a racquet in awhile.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depending upon the scenario - a sincere man who holds his head high & gives a firm handshake while looking you in the eye, or a memorable, firm hug. My long hair. If we start a conversation, I can entertain & charm you. You'll notice a deep well of compassion & a low tolerance for all things superficial & vapid.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - 'The Sun Also Rises' 'The Ambassadors' 'The Shining' 'The Time Traveler's Wife' 'Die Glocke.' Movies - 'A Clockwork Orange' 'Time After Time' 'The Philadelphia Experiment' 'Amadeus' 'Raising Arizona' 'Office Space' 'Scent of a Woman.' TV Shows - 'The Prisoner' (60s, with Patrick McGoohan), 'Lost' 'Lost In Space' (thank you HuluPlus) 'Fringe' 'Sliders' 'Heroes' 'Night Gallery' (yes, the old series hosted by Rod Serling) 'American Horror Story.' Music - 'Toad the Wet Sprocket' 'Jonas Steur' 'Eric Johnson' 'Wendy Carlos' 'Spirit' 'Led Zeppelin' 'Nirvana' 'Aphex Twin' 'Cloud Cult' 'The Doors' 'Jefferson Airplane' 'The Beatles' 'U2' 'The Cure' 'Psychedelic Furs'
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Women in all their glorious shapes & forms, but one good one in my life would make me a happy guy. Good seafood (I can go for awhile without, but in a world without seafood, I'd be sad), great television & film writing, music, enough money to be happy, a pill that would extend my life forever, so I could live like the little robot boy from 'AI' only the adult version - plus I'd want all my parts to be human ;).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Quantum physics, nature, cooking, writing, scary things, design, music, travel & women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing, making notes on movies or shows I watch on Netflix, HuluPlus & the like, cooking up something new, enjoying a good beer with good tunes playing in the background. I'd like to find a lovely, fun, clever, cool lady to join me at a drive-in double feature, or with whom I could grab a brew or two at a local watering hole, haunt a donut shop, or spend a quiet evening at home with some wine & a good movie or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Gee - I dunno. I have a "blankety-blank." Two words. Chat with me for awhile & the reveal will come. I like Asian women. I've just had really good experiences in the past with them. So, if you're Asian/Asian-American & you possess the personality characteristics I mentioned, by all means drop me a line :).
You should message me if
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you an hold your own in a conversation about film & TV.

you like 60s/70s/80s music.

my Friday night date ideas sound appealing