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JoCSo

40 M Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some might say I am a super-cool guy who can screw in lightbulbs, lift heavy objects, cook a mean meal & give a fantastic foot massage...not at the same time, but quite possibly in that order ;). I do march to the beat of my own drum...tend to be verbose (I literally had to cut, cut, cut the written spin on my profile to get it to a reasonable length). If you write 1-2 word answers, don't fill out the q&a section (hey - that's the most interesting read!), or simply rely on - few well-taken pics of yourself I really don't see what we'd have to talk about once we've spent a little time together. Pics may get you responses, but remember, men send out 10 times the amount of first contact emails that women do. If they've got nothing to go on with your profile as to who you are & what you like, you might just have a ton of mis-matches...just sayin'.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Independent filmmaking. This includes, but is not limited to writing/reading/editing scripts, securing equipment, casting, location scouting, talking with strangers like I am Huell Howser (that part can be interesting - my friend once had a gun pulled on him by a crotchety stranger when he asked the man if he could use his property for a shoot), long drives, SAG paperwork, Final Cut Pro, music rights, sniffing craft services food in hopes of avoiding botulism...and finally, personality conflicts - yay! It's not compartmentalized like the giant projects. It's sure as hell not boring.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Editing, illustration (sketch art), writing sketch comedy, playing keyboards, cooking. I used to play quite a bit of tennis, so I could still claim to be good at that, but I haven't picked up a racquet in awhile.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depending upon the scenario - a sincere man who holds his head high & gives a firm handshake while looking you in the eye, or a memorable, firm hug. My long hair. If we start a conversation, I can entertain & charm you. You'll notice a deep well of compassion & a low tolerance for the superficial & the vapid.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - 'The Sun Also Rises' 'The Shining' Movies - 'A Clockwork Orange' 'Time After Time' 'Scent of a Woman' TV Shows - 'The Prisoner' (60s, with Patrick McGoohan), 'Lost' 'Fringe' 'Sliders' 'Heroes' 'American Horror Story' Music - 'Toad the Wet Sprocket' 'Jonas Steur' 'Eric Johnson' 'Wendy Carlos'
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Women in all their glorious shapes & forms (especially women who appreciate the art of leg & foot massage), good seafood (I can go for awhile without, but in a world without seafood, I'd be sad), great television & film writing, music, enough money to be happy, a pill that would extend my life forever, so I could live like the little robot boy from 'AI' only the adult version - plus I'd want all my parts to be human ;).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The genius of J.J. Abrams' television writing. Doctor Walter Bishop listening to Yaz in an abandoned taxi; the Observer pouring an entire shaker of pepper & piling "11 sliced jalapenos" onto a rare roast beef sandwich; Desmond listening to Mama Cass Elliot as he works out in an underground bunker...also, the intensely interesting mind of David Lynch as expressed through his vast body of work over the years. The comforting fact that it takes a lot of mental fortitude to "zig" while everyone else is "zagging."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing, making notes on movies or shows I watch on Netflix, HuluPlus & the like, cooking, enjoying a good beer with good tunes playing in the background. I am now adding a category, because we are all on here to find an alternative way to spend a Friday night, yes?

ON A TYPICAL FRIDAY NIGHT, I WOULD LIKE TO BE

Cooking for or with someone, catching a drive-in movie (ohhh yes), exploring a partner in conversation - or in a more "tactile" manner. This would include giving her a foot & calf massage (my specialty)...there - that's a good start, I think....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a foot fetish. This is now no longer private after filling out this profile, but I find that you can't complain if you don't ask for what you want. I have a dream of owning a drive-in movie theater some day. Viva la drive-in!
You should message me if
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You'd like to meet a guy who'd be a great complement to your life.

You can hold your own in a conversation about film & TV.

You like 60s/70s/80s music.

You really like the idea of that foot massage & would like to explore it.