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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–49
  • Near me
  • For casual sex

My details

Last online
Dec 31, 2014
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a geek for a living, but I race sv650 motorcycles for fun. I love wine. I write Science Fiction and sometimes Fantasy. I seek out relaxing time with fun people.

I'm a pescetarian (that's a vegetarian that eats fish). It's more to do with health choices that ethical constraints, although I'm quite happy to not fund the meat industry.

Right now I'm very much looking for people to have fun experiences with. Let's go dancing. Let's go rock climbing, bicycling or scuba diving.

Understand this about me: smart is sexy. Beautiful is sexy, but smart turns me on more. You don't have to be smart about things I like, you just have to be smart about something you love. And want to talk about it, and get turned on by it. Be alive.

I am polyamorous, but unfortunately my dance card is very full right now. I'm always open to making new friends however, especially if you like any of the activities listed above.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am building new habits, rearranging the priorities and generally trying to slow things down and enjoy them more.

I have a problem sleeping. No, not like that. I sleep quite easily, I just forget to stop and actually go to bed! So I am trying to convince myself that this is worthwhile, and starting to appreciate the benefits.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a bit of a slacker, punner and roundabout fool.

I'm also good at taking on too much, and working myself in the ground. So I'm trying to do more of the former and less of the latter ...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My laugh. My smile.

That I engage fully, and pay explicit attention to who I'm talking to. That I like people and don't hold expectations of them. I like to go along and enjoy experiences for what they are.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Alternative Rock and really any well-written music. My favorite band this week is Teagan and Sara, but I like everything from Goth/Industrial music to Folk.

Favorite Books:

Finity's End * C.J. Cherryh
King's Test * Margaret Weiss
Killing of Worlds * Scott Westerfeld
Invader * C.J. Cherryh

Favorite Songs (at the moment):

Don't Rush * Teagan and Sara
Low vs Diamond * Actions are Actions
Silversun Pickups * Panic Switch
Jimmy Eat World * Always Be
Good to Sea You * Pinback

Favorite Movies:

Serenity, Artemesia, Faster, Shaun of the Dead

Favorite TV Shows:

Firefly, Babylon 5, Doctor Who, Sarah Conner Chronicles, Battlestar Galactica
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends, relaxing moments, sincere appreciation, satisfaction, wine and sex.

(I should probably put sleep there too, shouldn't I?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Good people, good times, wine, sincere appreciation. Racing motorcycles. And oh yeah, long nights up close with people I love and respect. :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Packing for a weekend at the racetrack or meeting friends for a fun evening together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My back is an erogenous zone.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
* You want to meet for coffee/beer/wine/tea and chat. I spend too much time on computers to enjoy chatting on them, I'd rather meet in a random comfy atmosphere.

* You know how to have a good time, and it's important to you.

* You know how to relax, and can understand that it is important to me.

* You're smart about *something*. It doesn't matter what it is, as long as there is something you really love and it turns you on to talk about it.

* You like science fiction and want to buy me a drink to chat about it. (I'll buy the second round)