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JoRhett

43 M San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
May 12, 2013
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Technology
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a geek for a living, but I race sv650 motorcycles for fun. I love wine. I write Science Fiction and sometimes Fantasy. I seek out relaxing time with fun people.

I'm a pescetarian (that's a vegetarian that eats fish). It's more to do with health choices that ethical constraints, although I'm quite happy to not fund the meat industry.

Right now I'm very much looking for people to have fun experiences with. Let's go dancing. Let's go rock climbing, bicycling or scuba diving.

Understand this about me: smart is sexy. Beautiful is sexy, but smart turns me on more. You don't have to be smart about things I like, you just have to be smart about something you love. And want to talk about it, and get turned on by it. Be alive.

I am polyamorous, but unfortunately my dance card is very full right now. I'm always open to making new friends however, especially if you like any of the activities listed above.
What I’m doing with my life
I am building new habits, rearranging the priorities and generally trying to slow things down and enjoy them more.

I have a problem sleeping. No, not like that. I sleep quite easily, I just forget to stop and actually go to bed! So I am trying to convince myself that this is worthwhile, and starting to appreciate the benefits.
I’m really good at
being a bit of a slacker, punner and roundabout fool.

I'm also good at taking on too much, and working myself in the ground. So I'm trying to do more of the former and less of the latter ...
The first things people usually notice about me
My laugh. My smile.

That I engage fully, and pay explicit attention to who I'm talking to. That I like people and don't hold expectations of them. I like to go along and enjoy experiences for what they are.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Alternative Rock and really any well-written music. My favorite band this week is Teagan and Sara, but I like everything from Goth/Industrial music to Folk.

Favorite Books:

Finity's End * C.J. Cherryh
King's Test * Margaret Weiss
Killing of Worlds * Scott Westerfeld
Invader * C.J. Cherryh

Favorite Songs (at the moment):

Don't Rush * Teagan and Sara
Low vs Diamond * Actions are Actions
Silversun Pickups * Panic Switch
Jimmy Eat World * Always Be
Good to Sea You * Pinback

Favorite Movies:

Serenity, Artemesia, Faster, Shaun of the Dead

Favorite TV Shows:

Firefly, Babylon 5, Doctor Who, Sarah Conner Chronicles, Battlestar Galactica
The six things I could never do without
Good friends, relaxing moments, sincere appreciation, satisfaction, wine and sex.

(I should probably put sleep there too, shouldn't I?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Good people, good times, wine, sincere appreciation. Racing motorcycles. And oh yeah, long nights up close with people I love and respect. :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Packing for a weekend at the racetrack or meeting friends for a fun evening together.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My back is an erogenous zone.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For casual sex
You should message me if
* You want to meet for coffee/beer/wine/tea and chat. I spend too much time on computers to enjoy chatting on them, I'd rather meet in a random comfy atmosphere.

* You know how to have a good time, and it's important to you.

* You know how to relax, and can understand that it is important to me.

* You're smart about *something*. It doesn't matter what it is, as long as there is something you really love and it turns you on to talk about it.

* You like science fiction and want to buy me a drink to chat about it. (I'll buy the second round)