I am trying this online dating thing with the intention to be fully
honest and open and hope that everyone else is doing the same. I
don’t want to play games or lie and say I am something I am not. I
don’t want to post pictures from 10 years ago in the hopes that I
can fool you when I meet you… I hope that everyone else is doing
the same! I am also one of those people that feels that there is
either a spark or there isn’t. If there isn’t a spark/connection in
the first time I meet someone I know that it won’t come in time.
The connection doesn’t have to be physical but there has to be
something. That feeling that you don’t want the night to end or
that you can’t wait to see the person again. That being said I
don’t plan to chat, IM, Text for months to end up meeting and
finding out the spark isn’t there. My plan is to chat a bit, see if
the fundamentals are there and then try and meet for a drink,
something along those lines and see if there is any spark and then
go from there. There is no point in wasting time and I am ok if I
feel the connection and the other person doesn’t as long as they
tell me that. Life is short and I do believe the right person is
out there.. for everyone. I am not sure if this site will lead me
to that person but you never know what could happen.
One big thing.. I have two dogs. Labs, and they are the loves of my
life. Payton and Jordan... can you guess I am a full blown sports
fan. Love the Bears.. Love the Cubs.. but I am ok if the Sox win as
long as they are NOT playing the cubs. Big thing though.. if you
dont like dogs then I will not be right for you. if you do like
dogs and I have not scared you away yet then you know how to
message me! :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am not sure what I am doing with my life.. I work, probably too
much but I love what I do. I have been with the same company for 8
years and really enjoy my days. Sometimes I wish there was no such
thing as remote access so that when I left the office I couldnt log
back in but I am the only one to blame for that. Long term my one
thing I want that I dont have is a lake house. I would really like
to own a place to go away on weekends, have family and friends come
up etc. Hopefully within the next 5 years I can find a place.
I’m really good at
Caring about people to a fault...
Making people laugh..
Finding the positive in most bad situations..
The first things people usually notice about me
Probaby my legs. .. but if we meet maybe you can tell me. I have
never asked anyone this so I may need some feedback.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I hate to even admit this but I did just read Fifty Shades of Gray.
I just had to see for myself what it was all about. I pickd it up
on a Saturday morning and finished it that day. TV Shows, I
shouldnt admit any of these but I like Big Brother, Jersey Shore,
BH Nannies, Game of Thrones, Dexter, 30 Rock is one of my
favorites. Music- all over the place on this. Used to hate country
but starting to like some of it. Not all.. but at least I am
opening up to it. Food- Thai, Pizza, Sushi. I like it all.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can be by water as quickly as possible. Love the pool, the
lake! The dogs love to swim so we are up at Lake MI every weekend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends.. if something good is going on I will be out but I really
like Fridays at home with a good movie and some red wine. I prefer
Saturday night to go out but again if something good is taking
place on Friday I am all for it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am on this site..
You should message me if
You like dogs! Your picture isnt 10 years old! You plan on being
real and want something more than a casual fling.