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JoeArnold

28 / M / Straight / Single

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

His Details

Last Online
May 22
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Here's a list of words which go some ways towards describing me:

- Heartfelt
- Thoughtful
- Always kind and considerate
- Musical: I've played violin since I was five. I have a degree in Jazz violin, of all things.
- Sense of humor: usually understated; not afraid of puns.
- Definitely into self-awareness.
- People generally tell me that I seem older and more mature than my age.
- INFJ
- The quiet type - though I'll talk your ear off about all the things I'm passionate about, which include music, the Alexander Technique, body work (i.e. massage or rolfing), making musical instruments, mindfulness, and the meaning of life... whatever that is.
What I’m doing with my life
I do so many things in my life.
- I play and teach music. I play in several area bands, whose styles include Irish rock, Gypsy jazz, and old-timey rock n' roll.
- I teach the Alexander Technique, a fascinating study of movement, thought, intention, and awareness.
- I build things like a six-string electric violin (with lots of help from my uncle), and a marimba (very much in progress).
- I compose music and record at home. Check out some of my music at josepharnold1.bandcamp.com.
- I also do all sorts of artsy-craftsy things. When I get an idea for a cool project, I can spend hours on hours immersed in it. One of my favorite activities is to make things with friends. Right now, I'm making a cigar box tenor ukulele.

My plans, as they seem at the moment, is to become a violin professor at some cool university near an ocean somewhere. I also would love to teach Alexander Technique full time.
I’m really good at
Teaching music, listening to your words, listening to my heart, fixing things, enjoying a quiet moment, parallel parking, playing violin, enjoying music, enjoying simple pleasures, expressing nuanced feelings and situations, baking cookies, making hearty soups, forgetting people's names...
The first things people usually notice about me
My Van Dyke beard. Some tell me that I look like Stalin (how is that a compliment?) or a Civil War reenactor (again, how is that a compliment?).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books of ALL TIME:
- "The Seven Mysteries of Life" by Guy Murchie
- "The Prophet" by Kahlil Gibran
- "Tao Te Ching" by Lao Tse (or so they say)
- "Non-Violent Communication" by Marshall Rosenberg
The six things I could never do without
AVOCADOS!!!!!!

Aside from avocados, I could never do without mindfulness. I believe mindfulness to be the single greatest gift to humankind.

That, and avocados.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The nature of experience and consciousness, the Alexander Technique, music, and how to find meaning in my life. Sound overly earnest? Perhaps. But I am also very light-hearted.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I eat most of my meals out of bowls.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
- You'd like to meet a thoughtful, lovably corny guy, with a penchant for making up music on the spot.
- You are considerate, kind, and tender, and you enjoy sharing quiet moments along with the exciting ones.
- You're into mindfulness and self-awareness. There's little I find sexier than women who self-aware.