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30 • Brooklyn, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–36
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 1:27pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Catholicism, and laughing about it
- Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Entertainment / Media
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
A pirate on a sea of dream,
Something of a ribald-savant...
And yet still not all that I seem.
I'm an actor combatant and fight choreographer, and I pay my bills by freelancing as a theatrical electrician, technician and stage hand. It's surprising how stable and enjoyable I've found it.
Otherwise there are spontaneous antics and tomfoolery abounding, including random sword fights in the park, hosting karaoke shows, hiking the Hudson Valley, drinking beer at the nerd bar and playing the pennywhistle.
Telling stories and listening to other people's stories - I am a big fan or the oral tradition (there's a bad joke there...).
Pairing tasty wines, beers, whiskys and cheeses, or mixing tasty cocktails.
Being snarky, finding myself in odd and ridiculous situations, making an ass of myself, and shouting out the lame, dirty or antique jokes most of you are thinking but don't want to say... It's part of my charm.
I've been sometimes told it's my smile or my eyes. If you tell me this, I will probably blush wildly.
I'm still frequently told I look like Matthew Brodrick... or more accurately, Ferris Bueller. Especially with short hair and my beard shaved, obviously.
Currently Reading: The Ethical Slut and The Irish Fairy Book
A selection: A Song of Fire and Ice series, The Malazan Book of the Fallen series, Fahrenheit 451, The Princess Bride, One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest, World's End, The Lord Of The Rings, Slaughterhouse Five, 1984, countless plays.
Movies: Serenity, The Boondock Saints, The Princess Bride, The Avengers and the rest of the MCU, REPO! The Genetic Opera, The Court Jester, Spaceballs, Death To Smootchy, Four Rooms, High Society, Independence Day, Interstate 60, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Cabin In The Woods, Dogma, But I'm A Cheerleader, 10 Things I Hate About You, Pulp Fiction, Stranger Than Fiction, Dead Poets Society, Zombieland...
TV: Firefly, Game of Thrones. Stargate SG-1, Doctor Who, Sherlock, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., NCIS, Arrested Development, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Mythbusters, and Mystery Science Theater 3000. I'd love someone to get me into Cosmos and TNG.
Shows: The Last Five Years, Hedwig and The Angry Inch, Pippin, The Fantasticks, Songs For A New World (I feel like these choices say a lot about me).
Music: All of it.
Dave Grohl rules with a rawk fist. I LOVE Foo Fighters. That or Celtic music is most often in my Pandora/Spotify, peppered generously with other stuff.
Ska is what makes me 'Rude' (I'm actually quite polite otherwise...).
I love Rock, Alt Rock, Classic Rock, Punk Rock, Irish Rock, Pirate Rock, Celtic, Rockabilly, Oldies, Cover bands, and a lot of americana-folk. Give me 90s jams any day of the week. And any song that tells a story.
Foods: Practically Anything--I love food. I'll try most anything twice. Can never go wrong with Italian or a real good burger. I need to discover more sushi, though. Anyone wanna introduce me?
I drink whisky, craft beers and cider. LOVE Cider.
I love Coffeehouses, Delis and Diners.
People, especially my friends and family--"There’s something way down deep that’s eternal... and that something has to do with human beings." ~Thorton Wilder, "Our Town"
Answers--Or perhaps more accurately, questions to answer. No, I'm not trying to be pretentiously deep; I really couldn't do with a world where everything was known.
How to be a better actor and fighter.
Why I love Tropicana Orange Juice so much.
The natural state and purpose of things.
Where in the World IS Carmen Sandiego?
How to improve things I'm not happy with.
How to go further with things I am happy about.
Why is everyone thinking about how they'd survive the Zombie Apocalypse?
Kink and my place in the spectrum.
My next awesome piece of fight choreography.
People's stories and experiences.
If I'm not in a show or rigging lights for a show, it's a crapshoot: some nights it's concerts, out with friends at a dive bar, singing karaoke, or just randomly finding trouble to get into. Other nights its sitting at home cleaning weapons, playing pennywhistle or watching Netflix.
...you want to pretend we didn't meet on here and instead get together in a coffeehouse, museum, bookstore or a pub. Other ideas welcome!
...you're looking for a friend or partner in crime for adventures, coffee/beer, and/or entertaining conversation. Seriously, I've found more awesome friends here than anything else.
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