Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The crappy relationship status only gives me three choices. I am
polyamorous, separated pending a divorce and am involved in an
awesome open relationship with an amazing person. The three main
facets of my life are remodeling, Judaism, and the fetish
lifestyle. I LOVE scaring the hell out of pansy-ass vanillas when I
play in public. I consider any performance where the audience needs
aftercare a success. "Hey, what's he gonna do with that
mousetrap...Oh God!" *giggle*
A lot of people on this site ask for honesty. I believe what they
really want is someone forthcoming about themselves while they get
to retain the luxury of keeping their own flaws private. I am
honest. Prove it? How's this? I have a felony conviction for a sex
crime from 20 years ago. If that chases you away, good. I'm
probably too risky for you and I don't like people that will throw
me out without knowing me and my story.
I'm a social activist. I focus on feeding and housing the homeless.
Women's issues like rape, consent violation, abuse, gender-based
discrimination and others are also deep concerns of mine. I am
currently busy assisting an older friend of mine with his daily
living due to his failing health.
I'm a heteroflexible, cis-gendered male of primarily Asian descent
and am radically inclusive, though not pansexual.
I'm a card-carrying member of Mensa, I would be in good standing if
I felt like wasting the money to bring my dues current.
I have a step-daughter who is grown and gone. She has two children
of her own now. So no kids around the house. The details table to
the right is really lacking.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My life is under renovation, specifically, divorce, reinventing my
business, discovering a new lifestyle and a new community. There's
a lot on my plate, so I'm looking for new friends and friendships
to grow. A few of my friendships have turned romantic, so, who
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Strategy games like Chess and Go are my favorites. I'm also good at
my occupation, renovation/remodeling. Another surprising discovery
is that I am a pain slut. I can take a beating like no other. I am
also good at math and problem-solving.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People usually notice my smile and friendly disposition. Some of my
female friends tell me that my butt is pleasing to see. I'm taking
their word on that. My hair is also something people notice
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite books are The Bible, The Silmarillion, The Lord of the
Rings, The Hobbit, The Encyclopedia of Knots and Decorative Rope
Work, The Dictionary of Signs and Symbols, math and science
textbooks, Piers Anthony, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Tao Te
Ching, Qu'ran, Bhagavad Gita, and would love to get my hands on a
copy of the Mahabharata.
My favorite movies are The City of Lost Children, Meet Joe Black,
Star Wars, Star Trek, Pirates of the Carribean, Alien and Predator
movies, kung fu movies including Kung Fu Panda.
My favorite music genres are Goth/Industrial/EBM and
pop/dance/house. Assemblage 23 and Switchblade Symphony are two of
my favorite bands.
If I must watch TV, then The Big Bang Theory is best.
My favorite foods are French and Japanese cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God, Family, Friends, Congregation, My social networks, Freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Introspection, not just thinking OF myself, I think about how to
grow and to cultivate my character, building honesty,
thoughtfulness, generosity, and checking my ego occasionally. I
spend a lot of time thinking about my friends and their needs as
well as social issues and concerns.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home lighting Shabbat candles, saying blessings, and hopefully,
having a nice meal with pleasant company welcoming the sabbath.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My felony conviction. In order to truly understand me, you have to
know how my conviction has shaped my life. Without that, you only
get half the story and no real appreciation of who I am and how far
I've had to come.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are interested in hearing my story or you have any kinks at all
and want to play. Sex only if it's negotiated beforehand. If you
are as honest and forthcoming as I am. You love any or all of the
following: cuddles, snuggles, wine, chocolate, gentle hair pulling,
rope, chain, padlocks, paddles, mousetraps, rubber bands, collars
and leashes, and you can follow simple instructions. By the way,
all of the above can be either giving or receiving.
Alternatively, message me if you want simple friendship and polite
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