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JoeMend

22 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
I'm a romantic. Not in the way many think of nowadays, but in the true way, in the way of Byron, Shelly, and Keats. I don't believe in external forces completely and fatally controlling my life. Destiny-- there's no such thing. I believe in self-determination. Or in Emersonian terms, I believe in self-reliance.

I like literature, poetry, art, music, martial arts, philosophy, and liberty.

I'm studying Economics and Literature at Bard College.

I'm currently working very hard on deepening my understanding of Zen. I'm a minimalist too, not an extreme one though.

"Man is his own star; and the soul that can
Render an honest and a perfect man,
Commands all light, all influence, all fate;
Nothing to him falls early or too late.
Our acts our angels are, or good or ill,
Our fatal shadows that walk by us still."
What I’m doing with my life
Learning to enjoy this world.
The first things people usually notice about me
How young I look.
I guess I'll be young for a long time ;)

Also, my accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books & Authors: Jorge Luis Borges, Edgar Allan Poe, Dracula, As I lay Dying, James Joyce, Ulysses, french symbolists, Yukio Mishima, Haruki Murakami, Julio Cortazar, Siddhartha, Allen Ginsberg, The Great Gatsby, Blake, Wordsworth, Coleridge, Byron, Shelly, and Keats.

Music: Pink Floyd, The Beatles, Armin Van Buuren, Sting, Lana del Rey, Jimi Hendrix, Rodrigo y Gabriela, Muse, Led Zeppelin, Miles Davis, Kilar, Boston, Phillip Glass, Eagles, Michael Jackson, Jarabe de Palo, and Astor Piazzolla!

Movies: The Prestige, Memento, The Others, The Dark Knight Trilogy, Francis Ford Cappola's Dracula, Inception, Superbad, Mishima: A life in four chapters, Godard's Weekend.

TV: Dexter, Lost, Arrested Development, Supernatural, One Piece, Naruto, Ugly Americans, Documentaries, Anime in general, & Law & Order: SVU.
The six things I could never do without
Fun,
Food,
Music,
Paradoxes,
And last and probably least, Air! Just kidding, I need air more than anything.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether I want a life of meaning or of happiness.

What's my future going to look like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Whatever I feel like. Can't really say there's an archetypical Friday night. But let's say a good friday night would either be out with friends wrecking havoc or just drinking absinthe while reading poetry, vodka would do the trick also.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ask me. I'm a very private guy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're an intelligent woman with a firm or developing sense of identity. You know what you want or are figuring it out.
You're amazingly cool.
You respect and encourage individuality.