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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19-34
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Aug 4
Seeing Someone
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Dropped out of Space camp
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Disclaimer** I'm just on here so my girlfriend can see our old conversations. A lots changed, much is the same. Love and house music baby***
Lets see... How do I do this? Well, I find it hard to summarize myself as I have a very fluid personality and I am continually redefining who I am and who I want to be. I moved to Madison in 2005, for school which I never finished. I partied a lot, didn't attend classes, and met a lot of people. Its not so bad though because I had a lot of great experiences and I was going to double major in genetics and wildlife ecology anyway. So if you think about it, I would probably have ended up working for the evil Monsanto corporation. I work full time at my day job. I really love dancing and dance music. In fact I've been DJing for almost two years, and I fell in love with the scene back in like 2008, and have been a fan of the music and dancing since then. I play mostly House music. I'm very outgoing, but it sometimes takes me a little while to warm up to new people and show them what I'm all about. I'm somewhat adventurous and I'll try just about anything at least once. I have many friends, and I love going out to socialize and dance with them, as well as meeting new friends along the way. I like to accomplish things and label myself "awesome", though I've outgrown using the word all the time. I value honesty and direct communication. Communication was a large factor in the demise of my last relationship, so I'm definitely looking for someone who isn't afraid to speak plainly, openly and honestly. I am actually very perceptive, and am capable of picking up on subtleties, but I'm not a mind-reader, so clarity is appreciated. I look forward to sharing experiences with someone new. If you like to dance, then you might want to get to know me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm in the process of becoming a much greater version of me.
Things I've changed about myself already/recently: quit smoking cigarettes sometime in November of 2012. I was addicted to nicotine for almost 10 years. I've already lost 20 lbs in the last month. I had lost 80 pounds previously and put 40 back on in my last relationship, so I'm down 60 lbs overall. Hey, I'll take it, and I plan on still losing at least another 60. I was previously motivated to change myself for an end goal of a steady girlfriend. When I accomplished that, I stopped trying. This was a mistake. Maintaining a healthy balance in my life is crucial to my entire health and my date-ability. I am now motivated to become a healthier individual, not for an end goal but for continuous personal growth. I have stepped up my game in some ways. I have set up a detailed, ideal schedule for myself. I danced hard in previous weight loss, and I restricted caloric intake. I am getting in a minimum of 12 workouts per week. This includes 4 Body by Jake workouts that are intense 11 minute workouts, 4 weight lifting workouts that range from 35 minutes to an hour, and 4 dance workouts that range from a 30 minute dance session to up to 5 hours straight of intense dancing. I also like to get in extra workouts and earn my own extra credit. I am forcing myself to spend more time in the studio, honing my skills and improving my sound through mixing, sorting and I'm also really excited to be getting back into music production. I'm reading a lot more than previously, and currently I am working my way through the entire Dune series. Dune has been my favorite book since like 6th grade, so its fitting that my dive back into the wonderful world of reading for enjoyment includes it. I recently gave up caffeine. I had made many attempts, and always fell back to energy drinks in times of stress. This ultimately made things more difficult. I can have the caffeine that's in a soda sometimes or in a coffee in a true emergency, but I don't really drink soda anymore. In fact my diet includes avoiding high fructose corn syrup and as many additives and preservatives as possible, within a budget. I am also working on moderating myself better with alcohol, though its easiest for me to just avoid it all together currently, as I have more pressing goals that require my effort.
Short Term Goals: Read more, lose weight and get stronger through exercise, be healthier, make healthy choices, spend time in the studio, become more financially responsible, improve DJ career, and find a new partner.
Long Term Goals: DJ exclusively? Go back to school for day job or music depending on DJ career. Maintain good health and habits. Build a family? Own a home? Who knows?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing, socializing, listening, and being awesome.
I'm also very intuitive/lucky.
Oral sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nice Smile. Great Dancer. Oddball. My eyes. My energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many things to mention. I'll list a few.
House music first and foremost. I love most and appreciate all music, but there's a lot of crap out there too, regardless of genre.
Futurama. If you love Futurama you're probably half way to winning me over already.
The Walking Dead, Hell on Wheels, Breaking Bad, and pretty much anything on AMC.
Psych is another show I absolutely love, as well as a couple others on USA network.
I enjoy Adult Swim programming as well. I'm sort of a Sci-Fi dork too. My favorite book is Dune.
In addition to House, I enjoy many kinds of music. Tool is one of my favorite bands. I'll pretty much listen to anything. I believe that all art has its time and place. However, when you've decided to be maximal just for the point of being maximal, you've crossed into a zone that is pretty much devoid of any art whatsoever. If your artistic goal is to be as maximal as possible for just the duration of that track or project, then I can sort of understand and appreciate that, but you'll have to sell it to me first. Also, most modern country and R&B are not my favorites, but like I previously stated, I can appreciate art as art, even if its not my top choice for DJing or casual listening.
Food: Just about anything. lol. I like spicy things. My favorite cheese is pepper jack. I enjoy most foods, but I am on a diet. I was eating whatever I wanted. I am monitoring a lot more now.
My main form of exercise is dancing.
Movies: Too many. I wouldn't know where to begin. Ask me how I feel about your favorite one!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, specifically House music.
Dancing. It just feels so right.
Good Food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much fun I'm going to have when I get off of work.
How I would do things different than those in positions of authority.
Standing up to intolerance, bigotry, and downright stupidity. Never let anyone convince you that you have to do something because its normal, standard, or right according to them. BE YOU AND THINK FOR YOURSELF. Don't be a sheep or any other farm animal led to slaughter. Weird and different are good. Be unique. Be innovative. Be PASSIONATE.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
DJing, or dancing. The right person could convince me to stay in every once in a while and watch a movie also. :-) I host Its Friday! @ Club Voodoo (The Bayou) on the first Friday of every month. I also bring in guest acts. Its about art, House music, dancing and more. Come check it out. 117 S Butler.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will say that I like an exchange of power sexually.
I like to dominate, I really like to be dominated, but I just really enjoy sex. It doesn't have to be a power play. I just find that very sexy.
You should message me if
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You like to have fun, you are passionate, you like to dance, you like what you see, and/or you are an oddity and proud of it.
Don't message me if:
-you don't like music. (You can like totally different music than me. Not liking music at all would be unacceptable and very strange, not at all in a good way.).
-you are uninterested in dancing or learning to dance. Take a chance. Step outside your comfort zone.
-you can't laugh at yourself.