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JohnAbeem

30 M Burton, MI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:48pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am probably not the one you are looking for.

I am recently out of a meaningful relationship. That seems to scare off some women. While I am the type that usually shuns off rebounds, I am wise enough to know that instantly jumping into another long term situation is not ideal. I would much rather prefer to let the dynamic reveal itself organically than force it into something it was just not meant to be.

I tend to be a bit of a pot head if money permits. If funds are tight or something else has priority I drop it with no problem. With that said, I will probably never have high aspirations when it comes to money or a glamorous job. I keep enough money to make sure I have shelter, food, and the basic comforts that I find important. So much time and effort is wasted on goods and services we just do not need.

If for whatever reason you are still reading this, let me tell you a bit about myself.

People usually bring up food with me. I have worked in various restaurant jobs my entire adult life. I was self taught early and have continued with that passion on a personal level. I started with comfort food and continued with italian, mexican, thai, and anything else that catches my eye.

I grew up on a dairy farm and not a day goes by where I do not think about it. You worked until the job was done and done correctly. I used to hate it, but it shaped me profoundly.

I have always considered myself a follower of Buddha. While there are parts I disagree with, I take great effort into thinking first and reacting second.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently moved. A massive amount of effort has turned the new place into MY place. It is a small distinction but a very important one. I live with my two best friends who are brothers. Without them to lean on, I just could not imagine where I would be.

Currently exploring better job oppertunities. Maybe my actual career is right around the corner as opposed to just another job.
I’m really good at
I usually have a quick connection with people. With my vast tastes in music, random trivia knowledge, and food, I can usually start a lasting conversation quickly and easily. I feel I am the rare type that actually listens and communicates rather than just waits my turn to speak.

I can look at any pantry and come up with an amazing meal. It really helps when the budget is stretched tightly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have longish pretty hair. Lol it's more a lack of cutting it more than a desire for long hair. I feel it works

Maybe it is that I'm 6' 2"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love music. From everything to old blues and jazz, to todays hits. Music is the articulation of a mood or an emotion through sound. Every culture has music, and even the most sullen of us all can be put in a better mood by the right song.

I read whatever I can get my hands on. I watch whatever I feel like depending on the mood.

When it comes to food I love pretty much anything and everything. I can recreate pretty much anything.

As for TV... i hate anything with reality trash. Yea, I do think you are a moron if you love the Jersey Shore. I do however love to laugh. I am endeared to shows such as Archer, Always Sunny, Wilfred, and House.
The six things I could never do without
1. clothes to keep me warm
2. music to life my spirits
3. food to nourish my soul
4. Love to warm my iced over heart
5. A bed to let me find my dreams
6. hope. If I ever lose hope then I am done for
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The complex relationships of the world. How the media controls what we care about. How so much ugliness can be in this world.. and yet at the same time moments of pure nirvana.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am not a bar person, so going out and getting shit faced is not an option for me. I would rather be doing something interesting and quiet. I moved this year, last year I was playing softball on Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sing Kelly Clarkson songs out loud... often. And off key! Its almost as if my life is the walk away music video.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Changing this up a bit...

Here is my new please avoid messaging me section

If you...

Talk to your cat in baby talk

Consider yourself a feminist

Or a liberal

Or a foodie (bitch please, the only reason you eat that stuff is that you want people to see you eating it)

That's pretty much it. When it comes to politics I'm usually in the middle it's just that in my experience liberals and feminists are miserable people who feel entitled in ways that are profoundly wrong.