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JohnAbeem

31 Flint, MI Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:55pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Religion
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First things first. I am not searching for my soulmate. I prefer to let things develop organically and let whatever turn into what it should. I feel people try to force things into something that it shouldn't be and the oppertunity to have a special dynamic with that person disappears.

I work... a lot. Its a job I really enjoy and though it started as a last resort option, I have really hit my stride with it and hope that I continue my fast rise with the company.

I feel i bring certain qualities to the table.
-i can cook. Like better than your grandma cook
-i can make you laugh.
-i have a razor sharp whit. I am rarely at a loss of words.
-i make an effort. I try hard at everything i do
-did i mention i can cook?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have transformed my life in the recent past. I have spent too much of my life just floating. Dead end jobs and not much effort into improving my life led to a lifestyle most do not find ideal.

Currently I have a great new job, bought my car, moved into a great living situation, and am carving out a niche for myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I usually have a quick connection with people. With my vast tastes in music, random trivia knowledge, and food, I can usually start a lasting conversation quickly and easily. I feel I am the rare type that actually listens and communicates rather than just waits my turn to speak.

I can look at any pantry and come up with an amazing meal. It really helps when the budget is stretched tightly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have longish pretty hair. Lol it's more a lack of cutting it more than a desire for long hair. I feel it works

Maybe it is that I'm 6' 2"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love music. From everything to old blues and jazz, to todays hits. Music is the articulation of a mood or an emotion through sound. Every culture has music, and even the most sullen of us all can be put in a better mood by the right song.

I read whatever I can get my hands on. I watch whatever I feel like depending on the mood.

When it comes to food I love pretty much anything and everything. I can recreate pretty much anything.

As for TV... i hate anything with reality trash. Yea, I do think you are a moron if you love the Jersey Shore. I do however love to laugh. I am endeared to shows such as Archer, Always Sunny, Wilfred, and House.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. clothes to keep me warm
2. music to lift my spirits
3. food to nourish my soul
4. Love to warm my iced over heart
5. A bed to let me find my dreams
6. hope. If I ever lose hope then I am done for
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The complex relationships of the world. How the media controls what we care about. How so much ugliness can be in this world.. and yet at the same time moments of pure nirvana.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am not a bar person, so going out and getting shit faced is not an option for me. I would rather be doing something interesting and quiet. I moved this year, last year I was playing softball on Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sing Kelly Clarkson songs out loud... often. And off key! Its almost as if my life is the walk away music video.

On a serious note I have had battles with anxiety and depression. I have no problem talking about it and have vowed to never let it slow me down again!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like to start a conversation that will never end

If you want some tips and tricks in the kitchen. Or even better, open my eyes to all that you know!

Just want to find someone that will give you an oppertunity. That oppertunity being whatever you would like it to be.