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JohnBL

26 Guelph, Ontario, CA Man

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:11am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm doing my Masters in a subject that I often have to justify to other people. Or, at least I feel as though I do. And maybe that says more about me than them. Probably it definitely does.

Currently I spend half of my week in Guelph and I get bored at night. My solution is to see if anyone on here might like to waste their time with me. I can't guarantee a good time, but I can guarantee time. Like, I'll give you some time and hope that you like me. I'd like to make other strong claims about myself, but I'm not the type.

So I'll say this: I'm a relatively introverted, reluctantly smiley, moderately funny human man who would make a terrible sales person. I wear glasses that make me look smarter than I feel.

I like making, collecting and sharing the following: music, literature, concepts, sweaters.
What I’m doing with my life
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I mentioned some stuff above, but also: I am in an open relationship with my long-term partner (capdiamant), and I hope that's okay by you. We love each other a lot, and just happen to like and love other people too.
I’m really good at
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some guitar playing, making people laugh (I hope), a bit of writing and spooning. I've been told I'm good at spooning.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I served coffee to a paramedic 6 months ago who told me I should get an agent and start doing voice work. And he should know. Since then another stranger has told me I have a good voice for radio. I haven't pursued either of those things, but I guess what I'm saying is my voice has been noticed by at least two people in history. So that's what came to mind first. To be clear, I think my voice is incredibly monotonous and that I mumble too much.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: East of Eden by John Steinbeck, Catch 22 by Joseph Heller, Infinite Jest by David Foster Wallace, A Fraction of the Whole by Steve Toltz, Underworld by Don DeLillo, On the Genealogy of Morals by Friedrich Nietzsche, Sources of the Self by Charles Taylor, The Myth of Sisyphus by Albert Camus.

Movies: I watch a lot of junky movies. I'm aware they are junk and that I shouldn't watch them, but then who else is going to keep my Netflix account active?

Shows: The Office (UK), The Wire, Freaks and Geeks, Peep Show, MST3K. And, if you'll allow me to be a snob for a moment, if you enjoy Big Bang Theory then we should never meet.

Music: The Constantines and/or Bry Webb, The Band, Tom Waits, Tragically Hip, Caribou, METZ, Grizzly Bear, Patrick Watson, Radiohead, Wilco, Ought.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm pretty adaptable.
You should message me if
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...you think we might have fun together. I'm here on OkCupid with mixed feelings. I'd almost always rather meet people in person, but I understand peoples' hesitation (and I am certainly not the most confident of humans). As for who I hope to meet, I am fairly open. I like relationships of all sorts: intense emotional ones, strong friendships, sexually driven ones. So, maybe let's talk and figure out what we can be to each other.

And also, I am an ill-experienced in relationships with people other than cis women. I am open to whatever comes along, but I feel like I should mention that in case it affects my desirability in your eyes.

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