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33 M Chestnut Hill, MA

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Last Online
Aug 20
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Wants kids

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My self-summary
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I'm smart, funny and kind. I'm hardworking and intellectual, driven and engaging. I do a fair bit of yoga. I'm more interested in who I am with than where or what I am doing, though I love live music, delicious food, good coffee, intriguing beers, consuming stories, and breathtaking scenery. I'm cute but that's not the best of me, and I don't think I'll always be cute. I think if you can give yourself to someone, then you should. I like sex and travel, but not in the unbecoming way. Time in the woods or on a mountain can be just as spiritual as a lifetime in the church. Living outside of this country taught me more about being an American than living here has, without being pejorative. The sea is good for balance and I like the crusty feeling of the salt dried on my skin. A day without friends or a meaningful conversation is gloomy. One should fall in love at least once per day, even if it's with the same person. It's likely that in a previous life I was a Mexican grandmother. I have a strange and beautiful fascination with helicopters. I sleep without pants, and often without a shirt. I like cooking delicious food but have been accused of being a "stunt chef." Ice cream is my muse and Scotch fills me with longing. I was in love once and it was glorious. I'd like to be a better gardener and I sometimes cry myself to sleep at night that I haven't read more books, like "War and Peace". I must see more of the world. It would be an amazing thing to see the earth from Outer Space. Love is something I believe in.
What I’m doing with my life
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Looking for love in all the wrong places..,
I’m really good at
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Others would say penmanship. I say singing in the shower.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Freedom by Jonathan Franzen, Cloudstreet by Tim Winton, Atonement by Ian McEwan, Mountains Beyond Mountains by Tracy Kidder, For Whom the Bell Tolls by Ernest Hemingway, Dancer From the Dance by Andrew Holleran, Great Expectations by Charles Dickens, The Audacity of Hope by Barack Obama, The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot, The Forever War by Dexter Filkens, The Poisonwood Bible by Barbera Kingsolver, Incognito by David Eagleman, The Big Truck That Went By by Jonathan Katz, The Uses of Haiti by Paul Farmer

Music: Dawes, Bon Iver, Grace Potter, Judah & the Lion, Cherub, The Head and The Heart, Justin Timberlake, John Mayer, Fleetwood Mac, Jay Z, Frank Ocean, Jason Mraz, Florence & the Machine, Corinne Bailey Rae, Amos Lee, Lake Street Dive, Tedeschi Trucks Band

Movies: I Am Love, The Tree of Life, Argo, Howl, Zero Dark Thirty, Love Actually, Kill Bill, Best In Show,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
It's all about love, really. Love and guacamole.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When I might see my amazing nieces and nephew again, the fortunate lives we live, how to save the world, how I'll get through the ever growing stack of New Yorkers AND all the books I want to read...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've decided to try online dating.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You're near my age, kind hearted, adventuresome, intelligent, motivated, active...