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  • Ages 18-45
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My details

Last online
Oct 29
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I'm at UCSD, employed in computer-based scientific research (ocean-atmosphere satellite remote-sensing), and am having fun taking rec classes here (e.g., gymnastics, trampoline, yoga, pilates, & dance). My favorite types of yoga so far are Hatha, Kundalini and Tantric.

I'm looking around for social opportunities. In the past I've gone to DanceJam, drum circles, raves, tantra gatherings, Mensa.

I have many interests, too many to list really, and of course
this means that I'm more of a dilettante than an expert or
specialist :-). Aside from what I mention above and below,
I'm interested in: life extension, general semantics,
systems theory, science, math, space travel,
nature, inventions, deep relaxation, floatation
, mind machines, higher intelligence, virtual
, Anthony Robbins materials, individual freedom,
brain science, smart drugs or nootropics, futurism,
extropy, NVC or non-violent communication or
"win/win conflict resolution through needs analysis", and more.

Some of the things that I'm not very into includes most politics,
most conventional religions, bars and/or getting drunk, smoking,
motorcycles, initiatory violence, most conventional sports,
pursuing money at all costs, worrying about "terrorists" or
"illegal immigrants", etc.

I am casual, reasonably bright, and good-humored :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Oh, working, taking care of myself, feeding my mind almost constantly via the internet, waiting for the housing market to bottom out so I can finally buy a house of my own, speaking up now and then about wrongs I see occurring in this world, etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

  • listening empathically, being a good sounding board
  • giving good amateur deep-release massages
  • finding humor in situations
  • finding and putting together good information from a variety of sources
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile and energy, maybe my hair and clothes (depends on who is doing the noticing), my sense of humor ...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
  • fiction: Herbert: Dune series, Asimov: Foundation trilogy
  • non-fiction: Franklin: autobiography, Korzybski: Science and Sanity, Wenger: How to Increase Your Intelligence, a good dictionary!

  • fiction: Contact, Harry Potter series, Lord of the Rings trilogy, Real Genius, Groundhog Day, Shawshank Redemption, October Sky, The Day the Earth Stood Still
  • non-fiction: Kinsey, Walking with Dinosaurs (& Prehistoric Beasts), Birdman of Alcatraz, From the Earth to the Moon

  • Electronic-Dance: Trance, House, Techno, Happycore, DJs: Paul Oakenfold, Ferry Corsten, Christopher Lawrence, Armin van Buuren, Sasha, Micro, Tall Paul, Donald Glaude, Carl Cox, Richie Hawtin, Anabolic Frolic
  • Classical: Mozart, Bach, Beethoven, Chopin, Debussy, Strauss, Holst
  • Ambient: Higher Intelligence Agency, Zero One, Global Communication, A Positive Life, Sounds From the Ground
  • New Age: Raphael, Singh Kaur, Liquid Mind, Aeoliah, Michael Stearns, Constance Demby
  • Rock-Metal-Thrash: Led Zepplin, Pink Floyd, Def Leppard, Nirvana, Stone Temple Pilots, Black Sabbath, Ozzy Osbourne, AC/DC, Judas Priest, Metallica, Slayer, Dismember, Deicide, Dark Angel
  • 60's: Jefferson Airplane, Jimi Hendrix, The Beatles, Moody Blues, The Byrds, The Youngbloods , The Association, The 5th Dimension, The Strawberry Alarm Clock, Creedence Clearwater Revival, The Zombies, The Monkees, The Doors

  • individual: salmon, turkey, eggs, artichokes, carrots, blueberries, peaches, pears
  • Cuisines: Chinese, Thai, Seafood, Mexican, Sushi/Japanese, Mediterranean, Middle-eastern

  • fiction: Star Trek (Enterprise,DS9,NG,original), Game of Thrones, Dexter, Californication, Vikings, Parks & Recreation, Weeds
  • non-fiction: Suze Orman show, Beauty and the Geek, Whose Line is it Anyway?, Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, America's Most Talented Kids, Achievement TV, The Apprentice (both)

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
exercise/activity of some kind
sexual pleasure
Paleo / zone-balanced meals
the beauty of nature :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
damn near everything :-) I usually try to occupy my mind with thoughts about great possibilities in life, the future, interesting things I just learned about, etc., though sometimes I dwell on the limitations in my life, try to see if I can figure out ways to get past them, then usually jump off again into more pleasant fantasies and humor :-)

higher consciousness,extropianism, general semantics, libertarianism, Zone diet, bicycle commuting, organic food, essential oils, higher intelligence, extropianism, TNS,Prometheus Society, Mensa, Whole Being Weekend, UCSD, anarcho-capitalism, enlightenment, individualism, timothy leary,, atlasshrugged, robert anton wilson, richard feynman, neuroscience, cuddling,sex, genius, ISPE
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sometimes dancing at DanceJam, rarely working (but sometimes), going out with friends, or if all else fails, playing on the internet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I take full advantage of having a private office ... for example, it gets hot in southern California, and sometimes working in the nude just feels right! ... but I always keep shorts and a shirt nearby that I can put on in a couple of seconds, just in case, LOL!
You should message me if
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you get a general sense that I'm someone you might like
you think I'm good-looking / sexy (and are female :-)
we have a few interests in common
you feel inspired to :-)