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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 27
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity but it’s not important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I know I'm not perfect. Maybe I'm an inch taller than you'd like, or a bit too handsome, but I'm sure we can make an entertaining conversation out of it! And who knows? You might have a nice time! Take a chance.

My female friends think I'm a catch. Race is unimportant. Ultimately, I want to find someone and spend the rest of our lives making each other laugh. Willing to settle for a dinner date.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Semi-retired. Finding laughter in everything. Looking for true love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Puzzles. Spelling. Killing spiders. Yardwork.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No idea. I have blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Hobbit, The Godfather, Star Trek TNG, Pink Floyd, hamburger.

The dictionary, Star Wars, Warehouse 13, The Beatles, cobb salad.

Green Eggs & Ham, Citizen Kane, South Park, Mozart, ice cream.

Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Singin' in the Rain, The Venture Brothers, Enya, bacon and eggs.

I Robot, Rio Bravo, Modern Family, chillout, pork chops with applesauce.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, potatoes, electricity, dreams, autumn, and love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Laughter, food, and science.

The hoarding of wealth by the ultra-rich.

Lincoln's government of the people, by the people, for the people - which is now ruled by corporations for corporations in my opinion.

Who invented bacon, and why doesn't she have a statue?

Why don't women who match me in the 90%+ range respond to my messages? Discouraging.

Building a transcontinental train tunnel, powered by gravity and geo-thermal energy, whisking passengers and freight at airliner speeds from NY to LA. With sexy android stewardesses. (And brooding muscular wealthy vampire conductors?)

...if the previous paragraph is the reason that women in the 90%+ range don't respond.

The OKCupid Personality category is right about some stuff, but way off the mark about several other things. It disturbs me. I'm reasonably neat and organized. I'm very empathetic and caring, (unless you screwed me somehow,) and also very polite. I was raised to say please and thank you, not talk with my mouth full, cover my nose and mouth when I sneeze, and excuse myself when I burp. I don't cut in line, stiff the waitress, or scratch my balls in public. Sadly, I am apt to *refer* to scratching my balls in public - in public. Less wholesome? That's insulting, and not at all true. Maybe they mistake my sense of humor for indecency or corruption. Very troubling, that. I just discovered it, and have half a mind to delete my profile over it.

Kittens and puppies are so damn cute.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out at home. I'm not much for the bar scene. If I had a girlfriend, maybe we'd be out to dinner and the movies, or heading somewhere for a weekend getaway.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I fight the scourge of introversion.
You should message me if
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