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41 M Cologne, Germany

My Details

Last Online
Jun 8, 2007
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Okay), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
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First of all: Yes, I know my profile sucks for not having any pics of me. But I have no digital camera and so it takes some time to find a usable pic of me to scan it...There are not to many pics of me around...So be patient if you care, and now on with the show:

Well, I can't say that i love to write about myself. At least without adressing someone special...But after some time to break the ice I can be rather talkative about very personal things. I'm shy at first, but I guess there's something other that wants to come out after I know someone a little better. I'm a rather thoughtfully person, sometimes a little too much.

After all I think I can say that I'm a nice person...even if sometimes I wish I wouldn't. To be honest, my self confidence is somewhat low and often I think that being nice is often equal with being boring. So yes, sometimes I would rather be less nice and more interesting, but I'm afraid there's nothing I can do about it. I'm hopeless nice...Okily, dokily...(no, don't be's not that bad...I can't stand Ned Flanders)

Update: Oh great, just retook the okcupid test and went from "loverboy" to "boy next door"...Now that's what I call a self fulfilling prophecy...One moment I talk about being too nice and wush, there I am...boring boy next door. Thats what you get from being honest...

I am thoughtfull, ironic, and quiet
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to find out...stuck at a boring job at the moment
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, remembering totally useless information, movie-quotes, song lyrics, etc. laughing with friends, amusing myself with computer games...just think of a geek who sucked at school
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Don't know, for I think of myself as being rather inconspicuously (sorry, my english is a bit rusty, had to call google translation for this)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a: I enjoy reading fiction as well as non-fiction. I love the work of Terry Pratchett and have read all his books more than 2-3 times. Douglas Adams also was great. Other books I recently read: "Jennifer Government" for the 2nd time (by Max Barry), "Shutter Island" and "Mystic River" (Before seeing the movie) by Dennis Lehane, Michael Moore, etc. But there are few books I wouldn't read if I just had the time and the money. I also enjoy some webcomics such as "pvponline" and "questionable content"...

b: Nearly every movie with Drew Barrymore, she's just to damn cute. Other favorites: Shawshank Redemption, Amelie, Leon, the visuals of almost every Tim Burton movie, Twelve Monkeys, Indiana Jones, The Court Jester, Blade Runner, Truman Show, Bob Roberts, Dogma, Frankie & Johnny (personal favourite for being one of the most "real life" romantic movies I know), Don Camillo movies, Ladykillers (the original), most comedys with black (english) humor, Monthy Python etc. wow, I gotta stop me...I really enjoy movies very much but seldom without company.

c: rock, some punk, Green Day (especially american idiot...brilliant album), alternative, Pearl Jam, some ska, and german kult fun-punk "Die �rzte" (best band in the world...they say...and they're right!), "Fettes Brot" (german hip-hop, NO wanna be gangsters!), 80`s , Bowie and so on...

d: I'm rather open...but I enjoy the souther european cooking (fresh, lots of herbs, pasta) very much. I rather like cooking sometimes, but I'm afraid that I'm not the creative, inventing kind of cook.

e: Nothing of the above, just wanted to add that I really like good design...I'm not mad about fashion but there are some style I really like (especially on cute girls)...So I'm absolute mad about Emily Strange, Ruby Gloom and punk girl style...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
some sort of communication...especially internet, friends (although unfortunately I don't have too many), love, red haired girls, something/someone to play with
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
too much all the time. Life, my purpose and goals in it, what I really want, what other people really want of me, politics, problems in the world and getting furious over them, philosophy, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There are few to no limits once I trust someone...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–68
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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you would like to know me better (and to let me know you better), or just to chat/mail for fun...