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43 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:12pm
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am!

No..not enough? Man this use to be easier!

Gainfully employed in the IT world, I have a place I call home by myself. I am in a good place in my life, financially secure, stable lifestyle, a great personality, comfortable with being single, but really looking to find that one woman to add to the mix!
A born and raised Seattle native, rainy days are a blessing to me.
I tend to smile at everyone that passes because I want to see whats in their eyes, a look away or someone that will smile back!

I have that sense of Urban Adventure, walking the streets of downtown Seattle, or relaxing under a cherry tree watching the water on Lake Washington... But just as happy at home with a cup of Hibiscus tea, jazz, and a comfortable couch cuddle.

Keeping my person busy with work, which I enjoy, (just ask how much vacation time I have saved up). A morning person, up and going at 5 with my day! Looking to meet someone, build a relationship, and spend good time together, simple, or very entertaining time!

Don't let the large frame, the intense look that i can carry scare you away, its the personal interaction, someone just saying hi with a smile that will get make my smile grow. Oh, and the eyes! Moments of being a dork to bring a smile and a laugh to the interaction, to laugh at yourself and know that kid you once were , and maybe still are at heart can still be reached, and enjoyed with someone.

Single, but with an idea that the one to make my heart just flutter is out there, that my actions, the idea of chemistry is there with the correct person, holding hands, wonderful PDA, sweet kisses together (ok yes a given together), being lost with someone just walking together. Yes I am a romantic at heart, and have the idea that when it connects, not heaven, earth, my boss, my parents, taxes, or the call for Uncle bob will keep me away from them!
What I’m doing with my life
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All Work and some play. I spend a lot of my time with work, i enjoy it, working on computers, with technology. Working on finishing my degree in Programming. Being the Greatest "uncle Bob"(and jungle gym)..Bob is a nickname to clear any confusion... to 4 wonderful children, oops, 2 teens and 2 kids! (ok they are all teens now..cry)

I have started in with new travels, Just got back from St Croix, Loved the beaches and food.... Next I am shooting for Europe, more of the ocean, looking for something spiritual. Passport ready!

Trying to make a change in my career, looking to move in a different direction to add some fun in it, part time, develop software/apps, time to find the new (an old dream) me!

Inspired by a conversation to start a C25k, and its interesting!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Daydreaming! Walking from point a to b and end up at point c with a wife and child on the beach in St Croix, only to see I am at my front door. Patience, either it being of a saint or a masochist. Flirting, be it with words or my eyes.....
Writing to break the 4th wall in my conversations (Hey who doesn't start to talk to the audience when they are writing)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, wonderful hazel, but blue when I am in a feeling great!

I am told by friends its my soft spoken nature, a great smile, and how mellow I am.

Myers-Briggs personality type INFJ
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am a James Patterson fan, just about anything he writes i will read. I am a fan of Jazz, R&B, classical, Opera, anything that has a good beat, or can relax me into a coma! Love Ethnic food, East African, Mexican, Italian, or just some good southern gumbo, sweet and great texture cornbread.
I have fallen out of the idea of tv, it is just there to have Pandora on at night, but I am wild about TCM (Turner Classic Movies), anything black and white, anything Cary Grant, Indiscreet is the best rom-com before it was rom-com! ANYTHING old and wise!
Just found St Germain liqueur, such flavor, for not being much of a drinker I love it
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A view of water
Sonicare Toothbrush
Vanilla soy chai tea latte
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
About, life, the world, and where I belong in it and where I am going through it. Music and movies. I truly get stuck in thought about that random person i just saw, and why eye contact and a smile area great start!

Lately, I have been thinking of how i can live and work in Seattle, but I can not seem to date in Seattle?..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to music maybe a good classic movie. You find a comfortable couch and that's your Friday! (Reminds me, I need a less comfortable couch!!) Reading, getting lost in the rabbit hole of Wikipedia. Reading through Okcupid profiles, some interesting, some good reads, interesting people, and others just....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I write poetry, a lot. Does not have to rhyme, they are my feelings, what I am going through, what i want. I will share on facebook, with friends, or at an open mic night when i am feeling most brave.

I love the jaws that drop when people finally read or hear some of it, such a shock to some. Ask, maybe I can share!

Not religious, but more of a spiritual being.
You should message me if
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You are trying to find someone to spend time with, are single, not married, have an open accepting heart, and ready to take time to invest in a great future! Some one who thinks holding hands and just sweet PDA is required!

But this is where you think, Hmmmmmm, and you press the Message button to say something as simple as"Hi"....Well, and just a bit more :)