Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am very creative. Many of the things I do in life seem to be
creative outlets for me.
I have embraced the randomness of the universe, as well as the idea
that things happen for a reason. you never know what will happen or
who you will meet, but there is often a reason that lies DEEP below
I am honest, and would never lie to anyone I'm involved with.
I have a high level of personal integrity. I take full
responsibility for all of my actions.
I am very open minded, and I think outside the box - this leads to
annoying people that haven't examined their own beliefs.
I have diverse views, and some of them may even seem contradictory
at times. I think that is part of being human.
I am Adventurous, Open Hearted, and looking for a real emotional
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for someone where there is some level of chemistry. If
there is more then thats good, if there is less, we can talk about
arrangements. What I'd really LOVE to find is someone I can fall
for, where there is a huge emotional connection, and it's committed
and secure, and yet there still some level of openness to it.
Oh, and preparing my house for the eventual apocalyptical societal
breakdown that will come with radical climate change that is coming
(This leads to longer conversations about whether science will save
us or whether the currently popular trend of anti-science, and
culture of celebrating ignorance will prevail and allow our
destruction. It is also clearly a longer term thing, not a panic.
Hey it's just good sense to have solar and wind power and catch
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
There seem to be 5 things that I'm REALLY good at.
Lighting for Rock Bands (I have, in the past, worked for Ted
Computer software (I do some consulting writing it, usually
Remodeling (my house and some rentals I own)
Writing (I've had some work published, and I've had a couple plays
Sex (Yes, I'm skilled in the erotic arts, and this is not just the
SEX part but the snuggling intimate time that comes with it, and
yes, I know that the inclusion of this word in my profile terrifies
a number of you. Sorry.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes. They show my life force. They are twinkling, and... they
spell mischief a mile away.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Moon is a Harsh mistress - Robert A. Heinlein.
Oh, and I own a scandalous out of print Dr. Seuss book thats
politically incorrect in which he drew "nekkid wimmens".
And of course "The Wizard Of Oz" a book that has sparked two social
revolutions. (go ahead ask me about it when we meet, I'll share the
data points with you.)
As far as music... I have, in the past, by spells, worked in the
music industry, and I like ALL music with only a few exceptions...
I dislike repetitive unskilled loops, I dislike overly twangy
country, I dislike mexican polka, and I dislike hostile rap (too
close to the beatnic poets of the 50 which wasn't anything but
"look at me") Anything that has a groove though... count me
Food: I like food that doesn't hurt when you eat it. (in other
words not so spicy that I need medical care. I like food that has
FLAVOR. (Yes, it's true, I'm a hedonist.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Snuggling, Cuddling, Kissing, Orgasms
The First Ammendment (and if you don't like it, well, Fuck You -
hee hee hee)
People that care about me, and people that I care about.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
social change (how to get people to be more open minded, and to
take personal responsibility for their actions)
And due to the questions here, I've been reflecting how many of
them don't have answers that reflect how I REALLY feel and so I'm
forced to skip the question or answer it in a way that I feel is
incomplete or worse yet misleading... and then, I have to wonder
how other people interpret the answers, and what it means, and...
you get the point.
And of course, every time I'm on this site, I think... why is it
that someone wouldn't respond to a message that gets sent to them.
When did it become OK to be THAT rude to not send a polite "thanks
but I'm not interested" note? Or am I deluding myself into thinking
that society isn't going downhill in this online world.
Oh, and I spend time thinking about "filtering". In answering
questions, you reveal things about yourself, but the more you
reveal, the more likely it is that someone will "find flaw", and
decide not to meet because of one factoid, this is REGARDLESS of
the potential to connect. I for one think that connection is
possible despite differences, but that does not seem to be an
accepted theory these days.
Oh, and if you want to chat about these "thoughts", please feel
free to message me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What would I >LIKE< to be doing on a typical Friday night?
Spending time with someone I care deeply about, and the list of
activities available is random and VERY large.
As well as the traditional seeing movies together and going to the
theatre together and going out for dinner date ideas, I hear about
crazy events, so here is a list of things that have happened in at
one point or another in the last 5 years... Mad Max parties, zombie
walks, death metal band shows, acoustically driven poly-pagan pop
band shows, erotically themed performance art shows, random other
live music shows, a sex party or two, random interesting lectures
about something scientific, board game parties....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Message me. nothing is really private.
The better questions are:
Whats the most extreme thing you have ever done?
Whats the Nawtiest thing you have ever done?
what is the moment that you remember when you were having the most
What is the moment that you are proudest of in your life?
What is your "best" story from your life?
These may not all have the same answer... and I'll answer any of
them, but not by typing, it will be face to face. Then you can look
me in the eyes and see the twinkle as I tell you.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You and I have a good match number here and you do not classify
yourself as a BBW (sorry, I'm just not wired that way) and maybe we
have something else in common. Age and race aren't an issue for
We can talk about the rest of the details.
Oh, and bonus points if you would also like to go on
rollercoasters, spend time kissing in the street while stopping
traffic, driving too fast, playing board games, you love to travel,
if the word ADVENTURE is a good word in your book, and on and on
Oh, and I've been published once or twice, and I'm looking for a
co-writer for some interesting projects... writing erotically
themed live theatre peices that explore the state of sexuality in
and of course, for fun, if you think it's cool that Ted Nugent gave
me a shotgun, and you want to go shooting skeet at the range in
Oh, or if you want to play Cards Against Humanity with me?
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