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53 • Seattle, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 30–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Not at all
- Graduated from university
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
I have embraced the randomness of the universe, as well as the idea that things happen for a reason. you never know what will happen or who you will meet, but there is often a reason that lies DEEP below the randomness.
I am honest, and would never lie to anyone I'm involved with.
I have a high level of personal integrity. I take full responsibility for all of my actions.
I am very open minded, and I think outside the box - this leads to annoying people that haven't examined their own beliefs.
I have diverse views, and some of them may even seem contradictory at times. I think that is part of being human.
I am Adventurous, Open Hearted, and looking for a real emotional connection
Oh, and preparing my house for the eventual apocalyptical societal breakdown that will come with radical climate change that is coming (This leads to longer conversations about whether science will save us or whether the currently popular trend of anti-science, and culture of celebrating ignorance will prevail and allow our destruction. It is also clearly a longer term thing, not a panic. Hey it's just good sense to have solar and wind power and catch rainwater right?)
Lighting for Rock Bands (I have, in the past, worked for Ted Nugent)
Computer software (I do some consulting writing it, usually PHP/MySQL)
Remodeling (my house and some rentals I own)
Writing (I've had some work published, and I've had a couple plays produced)
Sex (Yes, I'm skilled in the erotic arts, and this is not just the SEX part but the snuggling intimate time that comes with it, and yes, I know that the inclusion of this word in my profile terrifies a number of you. Sorry.)
The Moon is a Harsh mistress - Robert A. Heinlein.
Oh, and I own a scandalous out of print Dr. Seuss book thats politically incorrect in which he drew "nekkid wimmens".
And of course "The Wizard Of Oz" a book that has sparked two social revolutions. (go ahead ask me about it when we meet, I'll share the data points with you.)
As far as music... I have, in the past, by spells, worked in the music industry, and I like ALL music with only a few exceptions... I dislike repetitive unskilled loops, I dislike overly twangy country, I dislike mexican polka, and I dislike hostile rap (too close to the beatnic poets of the 50 which wasn't anything but "look at me") Anything that has a groove though... count me in.
Food: I like food that doesn't hurt when you eat it. (in other words not so spicy that I need medical care. I like food that has FLAVOR. (Yes, it's true, I'm a hedonist.)
The First Ammendment (and if you don't like it, well, Fuck You - hee hee hee)
People that care about me, and people that I care about.
And due to the questions here, I've been reflecting how many of them don't have answers that reflect how I REALLY feel and so I'm forced to skip the question or answer it in a way that I feel is incomplete or worse yet misleading... and then, I have to wonder how other people interpret the answers, and what it means, and... you get the point.
And of course, every time I'm on this site, I think... why is it that someone wouldn't respond to a message that gets sent to them. When did it become OK to be THAT rude to not send a polite "thanks but I'm not interested" note? Or am I deluding myself into thinking that society isn't going downhill in this online world.
Oh, and I spend time thinking about "filtering". In answering questions, you reveal things about yourself, but the more you reveal, the more likely it is that someone will "find flaw", and decide not to meet because of one factoid, this is REGARDLESS of the potential to connect. I for one think that connection is possible despite differences, but that does not seem to be an accepted theory these days.
Oh, and if you want to chat about these "thoughts", please feel free to message me.
As well as the traditional seeing movies together and going to the theatre together and going out for dinner date ideas, I hear about crazy events, so here is a list of things that have happened in at one point or another in the last 5 years... Mad Max parties, zombie walks, death metal band shows, acoustically driven poly-pagan pop band shows, erotically themed performance art shows, random other live music shows, a sex party or two, random interesting lectures about something scientific, board game parties....
The better questions are:
Whats the most extreme thing you have ever done?
Whats the Nawtiest thing you have ever done?
what is the moment that you remember when you were having the most fun?
What is the moment that you are proudest of in your life?
What is your "best" story from your life?
These may not all have the same answer... and I'll answer any of them, but not by typing, it will be face to face. Then you can look me in the eyes and see the twinkle as I tell you.
We can talk about the rest of the details.
Oh, and bonus points if you would also like to go on rollercoasters, spend time kissing in the street while stopping traffic, driving too fast, playing board games, you love to travel, if the word ADVENTURE is a good word in your book, and on and on and on...
Oh, and I've been published once or twice, and I'm looking for a co-writer for some interesting projects... writing erotically themed live theatre peices that explore the state of sexuality in america,
and of course, for fun, if you think it's cool that Ted Nugent gave me a shotgun, and you want to go shooting skeet at the range in Kennmore...
Oh, or if you want to play Cards Against Humanity with me?
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