Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Six most important character strengths I have are: Creativity,
Curiosity, Courage, Humor & Playfulness, Appreciation of Beauty
& Excellence, and Authenticity.
Finding Balance in my life is a central pursuit.
I've experienced joy and loss and yet I have never become
I'm definitely a Romantic Idealist of the Baby Boom
and I am spontaneous and a good lover. I love sex and am very
affectionate. I'm a healthy man and a good father and able to give
and receive love and build a new family.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After experiences in several careers, I decided to finally do what
I was always primed and most adapted to do: become a
psychotherapist and work with families and adolescents and college
students. I've been very good at that and it also feeds into my
writing and has affected my world view in many ways. But I am
someone who hangs out with people of all backgrounds, professions,
cultures, languages, etc.
I also love to sing and have been taking voice lessons for the past
four years with my 10 year old daughter. Being a divorced father
has been the most central focus of my life and cultivating and
repairing friendships and my relationship with my brother have been
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding and developing other peoples' talents and strengths.
Creating and facilitating positive atmospheres for events of
significance and fun. With my spontaneity and energy I am able to
make things happen with flair and joy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My high energy and intelligence and charisma.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have loved the great singer-songwriters of the past 40+ years
such as: Jackson Browne, Bruce Springsteen, Paul Simon, Leonard
Cohen, John Lennon, and of course Van Morrison. Grew up with black
soul music and later reggae of Bob Marley and of course The Beatles
and Rolling Stones. If I could have a second life, I would want
nothing more than to be a singer-songwriter.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Women who know how to flirt
Jon Stewart & Stephen Colbert
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to find a woman who can build a new life with me.
You should message me if
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You have the Courage to be a romantic in America when almost
everyone else is anti-romantic. If you care about connection more
than "connections", have a good sense of humor and irony and are
sexy and feminine; you want to be nurtured and have the desire to
share and be nurturing.
Who are you looking for?
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