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34 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I don't understand why dating is so hard. All I want is someone to love me for who I am as a person. And I want them to be really hot.

Fine, I'll take this seriously.

I love people who are passionate about life and what they do. Also, quality of character is very important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just co-founded and funded a start-up. If you're an international shipping magnate I'll be glad to tell you about it. Otherwise I do my best to skew away from the "my job is my life" line of conversation.

Outside of that I write songs, the odd joke, and intermittently threaten the world that I'm going to write longer prose; the world is un-phased. The songs do all right, though. I've licensed a couple for TV and it was nice to have someone cut me a check that said "$You don't suck." But I've seen enough of the music industry to know I don't want to "make it."

Also: Crossfit. I love the intensity but not the Kool-Aid.
I’m really good at
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Figuring things out. Putting things into words. Finding great restaurants. Singing in the shower.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile or my laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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All very recent and in brief...

Music: Active Child, Burial, Jon Hopkins, Kendrick Lamar, Frank Ocean, Frightened Rabbit, Moderat, Savages, etc...

Older stuff: Spoon, Fiona Apple, Radiohead, Neko Case, etc... I used to be a rock dude but I bailed when it got dull.

Movies: Holy Motors / Mauvais Sang (I'm on a french movie kick), Gravity, Hud, the Great Happiness Place, others I forget.

Shows: The Wire, Mad Men, Louie, Trailer Park Boys, Friday Night Lights, Girls, Homeland, Archer, Masters of Sex.

Food: I eat everything but green bell peppers. And I love to cook. I would happily make a day out of finding ingredients and making a big meal.

Books on my kindle now: Just Kids, Seven Days in the Art World, Wind-Up Bird Chronicles, Post-Structuralism: a very brief introduction, Dispatches.

Also, I read a metric ton of journalism including NYT, Atlantic Monthly,, Grantland, etc...
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Somehow I'm the tallest 6'1" guys on this site.
You should message me if
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* Witty banter is your forte.
* You like going to see live music and comedy
* You're kind but nobody's fool