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31 • Cambridge, MA • Cis Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 21-45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 4:49am
- Seeing Someone
- Relationship Type
- Strictly non-monogamous
- 5' 9" (1.75m)
- Body Type
- Working on Post grad
- Doesn’t want kids
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Ancient Greek (Somewhat)
Also: Writing about things I care about, but not often enough. Biking a lot. Getting better at identifying wild edible plants, baking, sewing, home-brewing, etc. Learning I enjoy things like bodysurfing and rock-climbing.
Some especially funny books: Don Quixote, The Master and Margarita, Lucky Jim, Winnie-the-Pooh, The Earl of Louisiana, Dead Souls, The Telephone Booth Indian, The Possessed (by Elif Batuman, not Dostoyevsky), The Towers of Trebizond, A Walk in the Woods, Barchester Towers, The Life and Opinions of Tristram Shandy, Nicholas Nickleby, Flaubert's Parrot.
Poets: Walt Whitman, Elizabeth Bishop, Philip Larkin, James Wright, David Ferry, Michael Hofmann, John Donne, Rumi, Gerard Manley Hopkins, Robert Frost, Robert Lax, ee cummings, Sappho, Bob Hicok, Claudia Rankine, Patricia Lockwood, Karen Solie, Basho, Sylvia Plath.
Movies: Harold and Maude, Big Night, On the Waterfront, The Graduate, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Blazing Saddles, Harvey, His Girl Friday, The General, Pulp Fiction, Sunset Boulevard, The Big Lebowski, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid.
Music: Bob Dylan, Tom Waits, Django Reinhardt, Jeff Lewis, Gillian Welch, Bruce Springsteen, Kimya Dawson, Charles Mingus, the Kinks, the Clash, Leonard Cohen, the Velvet Underground, Johnny Cash, the Ramones, Bikini Kill, Joni Mitchell, the Pogues, the Dubliners, Ezra Furman, the New Lost City Ramblers, Anais Mitchell, Gogol Bordello, Fiona Apple, Audrey Ryan, And the Kids, Hands and Knees, radical marching bands. And, you know, the Beatles.
Food: Sushi, raw oysters, seaweed, PBJ, kimchi, banh mi, wasabi peas, dumpstered steak, pie, oatmeal cookies, salad from my garden, olives, sea urchins, fried sea anemones, churros, salmorejo. From that oft-neglected food group: stout, porter, IPAs, rauchbiers, sour beers, micheladas, bourbon, Scotch, Bloody Marys, gin and tonics, red wine and so on. And smoke: I've recently realized I love the taste of smoke, whether piggybacking on meat, peppers, tea, whiskey, or beer.
TV: King of the Hill, Sherlock, Broad City, Dr. Who, Breaking Bad, Parks and Rec, New Girl, Gilmore Girls, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and, you got me, The Walking Dead.
Podcasts: Radiolab, Alt Latino, This American Life, You Made It Weird, and now Serial.
If you think we'd have things to talk about, you have interesting books listed, you want someone to show you around town, or you want to refurbish my autoharp and teach me how to play it. (Yes, I'm asking someone to teach me to play the simplest instrument this side of the kazoo.)
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