So you’d like to get to know me? Just the basic facts? Ok.

My days off consists of catching up with my family, playing with my niece and nephew, relaxing watching a movie, or grabbing a drink (coffee or beer) with my friends. Family and friends are very important to me.

I came to this site as a way of meeting new people instead of bars and clubs. If you see me in a club chances are I’m practicing for my auditions for Step It Up 14!

I’ve dated different types of women, from a pastor’s daughter to the girl who’s the “life” of the party. What I’ve found out is that looks only get you in the front door but an “ugly” personality will be a sure way to see the exit. The “hot” girl in the club vying for every guys attention is a dime a dozen. But the girl who is confident in who she is and what she wants is worth her weight in gold.

I don’t like drama or insecure girls. You must be confident in who you are as well as smart and witty.

Now for the data point section of the summary:

• Contrary to popular belief, a smile is the best accessory.
• You ever walk been walking thru a crowd, just thinking of stupid things, and start to crack yourself up? Then you start to think that everyone else is looking at you like you’re crazy. But that only makes you laugh more? Yeah, me too!
• I sometimes sing songs about what I’m doing or am about to do!
• When I bake chocolate chip cookies, I always do a 2x recipie.
• I enjoy learning about wine. I believe that good wine should always be shared with good company!
• Life is not about the destination but the journey. This is why when I get lost or problems happen it makes me smile because it’s always an adventure.
• I use Google as a spell check.
• My friends and family makes me want to be a better person.
• I rarely use abbreviated words while text messaging.
• I own my own home. I bought it when I was 23 by myself.
• This is getting to be too long so I’ll stop.

I'm focused on my career and it's further development. I have a plan for what I want and I'm working that plan. In anything you do there are areas for improvement. That goes for personal and professional. I try to create a balance between work, play and personal growth. Personally I try to treat my mind like my body; feed it and exercise it well but also enjoy the treats!

Giving people compliments. I'm a positive person and I can see the good in others. I feel that you should give positivity if you want to receive it.

Is that I’m laughing or smiling. I feel like you should be happy to see people wheather they are new to you or old friends! It's either that or me with a serious face because I'm focused on trying to divide by compound fractions while juggling.

Books: The most recent ones that I've read have been The Road, Crime and Punishment, The Alchemist, The Sommeliers Prep Course, The Walking Dead, Beyond Fear, Raving Fans, Daytrippers, Outliers, The Four Agreements, and The Tipping Point.

TV: Big Bang Theory, The Wire, Dexter, Modern Family, Happy Endings, How I Met Your Mother, Band of Brothers, CSI: Vegas, Samuari 7, Doctor Who, The Walking Dead, Workaholics, Red Dwarf, Twilight Zones, Full Metal Alchemist, Samuari Champloo.

Music: I love music that has emotions and soul to it; or even just a great beat with stupid lyrics. With that said, I have different types of music for different feelings/moods. I used to be a DJ, so it's something that I'm passionate about. Music to me is a hidden treasure that I’ve spent time and energy searching for. I love meeting people who are passionate about music and just share and talk about it. Just talk about how it makes them feel way they do and why they like it so much. It’s a great way to find really good music. So after saying all of that I going to give the generic statement that everyone says, “I listen to everything”. If you are interested is some of the music I like let me know and we can talk.

1.Family/friends- they are my backbone.
2.Sense of humor- if you can't laugh at yourself, then who can you laugh at? You better be witty!
3.Music- the soundtrack to my life.
4.Positivity-Negative Nancy Need Not Apply!
5.Water-I drink LOTS of it. I signed a Hydration Proclamation in 99'. It does the body good!
6.A REALLY good walk by Hi-five. I'm talking where you barely put any effort into it but it's really loud where everyone stops their conversation and look at you and nod in approval to appreciate what a rare achievement that was because they know how special something like that is. (Yes, that deserved a run on sentence.)

How I can be the change I want to see in the world. How will I have impacted people when I'm gone. Will a kind gesture make someones day? I know that a genuine "Thank you" goes a long way.

Oh man, what am I NOT doing! Everything from the usual work or play, to the less frequent; like taking my pet giraffe named “Shorty” to the zoo to show him where he’s going to end up if he keeps up his gambling operation in my backyard. (He’s always trying get rich quick schemes.) But in all seriousness, a typical Friday night is spent surrounded with good people having a great time. I’ve found that depending on the company the things you do changes. When P. Diddy hits me on the phone and says get down to Miami for this CRAZY party, I have to tell him that last time I did that he fell asleep on me. When my friends call, it’s spent laughing and interrupting each other’s story when they pause with a random comment to see if you can break their train of thought and get them to laugh.

I can do the best karaoke version of The Sugarhill Gang's Rappers Delight you've EVER witnessed! 7min or the full 15 min!

• You are happy with who you are. Don’t think that you will find happiness in a relationship. Be happy, then look.
• You have a pet Panda. (This isn’t a deal breaker but preferred.)
• You know what empathy is.
• You are health conscious with what you eat and exercise.
• You don’t play games and you know what you want.
• You are WITTY and can take my sarcastic comments (note: sarcasm and being rude are two different things).

You should ESPECIALLY message me if you're allergic to having FUN. Because you never know, we could end up taking a spontaneous trip to the coast just for an excuse to drink some nice wine with a view. Life is what you make it and if you’re afraid of a good time then fear won. Nobody likes fear. He’s like that mosquito who keeps flying around your head and trying to go up your nose when you’re playing volleyball with your friends at night in the summertime. Screw fear!