I will be 42 yrs. old in Feb. I am just an average gal with average build (could stand to lose a few pounds and working on it). I've been told I am fun, have a good personality, independent, nice, sweet. I try to be a good decent person but I am definitely not perfect (by far). I have 2 children. My daughter is 22 yrs. old with a 4 yr. old grandson and my son is 18 years old and will be attending college next year. Hmmmmm....I work full time. I have a bachelor's degree in Business Administration. I am ready to start living life to the fullest and enjoy life with the company I keep. I love to smile and laugh. My main quality in a man that I have to have is respect for him. He must be a decent individual that treats people with kindness......how he expects to be treated in return. He must not be controling or have anger issues. Please no perverts...don't contact me. I am a lady. I want someone that I enjoy being with outside of intimate times...that I enjoy spending time with and being friends with also.

Don't contact me if you are not in Wichita or at least within 30-45 min. from Wichita. Thanks

What I am doing with my life? I am figuring that out just now. I am newly single (since Aug. of 2008). For 21 years I have been a wife and a mother so I am learning about me now that my kids are grown. I do like to laugh and have a good time and be with others that make me laugh.

I like the sunshine......outdoors......lake, park, swimming pool, baseball games, walking outdoors, etc. I enjoy dinner, dancing or a bar occasionally. I enjoy movies. I like to do alot of things as long as I like and enjoy the company I am with.

Laughing......making people smile and laugh.....even at my own expense! Once people get to know me I am good at making friends. I am dependable and independent. I am a hard worker.

Was good at raising my children and being a mother for the most part.

My eyes and my smile.......that's what they tell me anyways. I am a bit shy at first until I come out of my shell and people get to know me which doesn't take very long. You see what you get with me. I am just an ol' average gal. I am kind of a romantic at heart. I love kids. My grandson is the highlight of my life.

I like sports type movies.......comedies...........love stories.......mexican food.

1) God
2) Family
3) House and job
4) Laughing and smiling and trying to enjoy life to the fullest
5) Friends
6) Happiness

Life and figuring out what it is I enjoy now that I am single and kids are basically grown. Learning how to be single and enjoy life within myself.

Lately.......adjusting to single life. Sometimes stay at home bored....once in a while I go out........sometimes I go to movies with my kids.

I am not perfect.

You are a decent individual that treats people with respect and honesty.
IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR ONE THING......DO NOT CONTACT ME.......I WANT SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE ME FOR ME AND GET TO KNOW ME AND NOT JUST FOR THE INTIMACY FACTOR....I am looking to date and looking to find a potential best friend/partner that I can eventually have a long term mongamous relationship with and possible marriage......but in no hurry! I want/need someone that is honest, trustworthy and faithful. I want to date men that don't have anger issues.