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Joll

37 San Diego, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I can be funny, but absolutely destroy jokes. Mind's agile enough -- don't study much, but test well. Healthy, and healthful. A bit of a bleeding heart, though with a pragmatic streak. ENTP. Good on a road trip -- I've driven six hundred miles for a sandwich and a sunset.
Never trying for cool. Really quite warm.
(and will put a glow in you.)

I ask questions, and listen to answers.
I like questions, and listen to askers...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lately focused on this whole "your" vs "you're" thing. Apparently, it's the hardest skill for a man to master?
Not to worry, I know all the tongue-twisters...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analogies. Thinking less like a dictionary and more like a thesaurus. I love to see how *this* is like *that* to understand and extrapolate. It's fast and fun, and the fruits of which are ideally stimulating and endearing--
(which is to say charming the pants off you...)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Likely the way I walk. If you're in love with me, it's my "fancy walk." Also: "a strut," "a jumpy gait," and "a lazy bounce." I've been told it's "musical" and that I'd probably be good on a horse (I am!)
Mom says I have "a good walkaway."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
-The Princess Bride (read it, you'll swoon!),
-Wonder Boys, and anything by Wes Anderson, Jean-Pierre Jeunet, or Michael Mann,
-The War on Drugs' latest is like an endless drive in to the ever-setting sun,
-a burger done rare with the stinkiest of cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Conversation that gives and gives back,
epiphanies,
generosity,
my silly family,
and that clenched-jaw feeling when you want to take a bite out of something you know you shouldn't, not just yet...
And ellipsis...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Communication. I want it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking to put a flower into your hair.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get a kick from watching dogs doing dog stuff when they don't know you're looking.
And I'm a sucker for girls who say words wonderfully weirdly, can smile when a recipe steers off-course, and see a little traffic is no big whoop.
--bonus points if you already know how to kiss.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can laugh at both your strengths and your weaknesses -- c'mon, c'mon!