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40 Naples, FL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:50pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a "people person" in many ways and while I have had a pretty large number of acquaintances, lasting friendships (and more) seem to develop more seldom. (One of the reasons why I'm here...)

I take a rational and sensible approach to much of my life, and those things beyond simple analysis (spirituality, etc.) still have a logical flavor in my reckoning.

In relationships, a reasonably high intelligence is something I look for. As well, someone who is mature in the "gracefully appropriate" sense of the word sooner than the "lifestyle adherent" sort.

I seek companionship above all else and don't over-emphasize the physical or passionate aspects of a bond.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Many of my activities are web-based... My business, volunteer work and much of my socialization, are all over the web...

On the up side, I try to exercise regularly and really do enjoy my volunteer work. On the down side, a fairly tight budget and has me pretty meticulous about spending.

While those things are true, exploring, in my social sphere, remains one of my passions. As such, the continual search for someone I relate to on a one-to-one basis keeps me engaged and enticed. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting things in a more accurate and precise manner than most people do. If you think of that as trifling, I'm not sure we'll get along... Essentially, though, reaching agreement about the precise character or value of an item, in a balanced sense, is one of my highest pleasures.
The first things people usually notice about me
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A certain formality, which I'll usually lower after a short period. It'll still pop up in sensitive situations or if I'm making a effort to be polite.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(Feel free to ask... you'll probably find yourself being introduced to something you might've heard of, but don't know much about.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wide ranging contemplation of various issues and states of affairs... That, and memories; when my inner eye gets directed toward a rich interchange or valued memory, it's very satisfying. (I know that's pretty general and I'm hoping you're the type of person that will enjoy sharing your thoughts, as well as drawing me out on mine. As well, if you're looking for big hints, my match question answers are almost always explained.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There are portions of my mind that are outright uncooperative at times, not unusual for many people, but you'll rarely see evidence of it in my outward behavior. I view the mind as a place of free and open consideration and occasionally will pay the price. ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a communicator... (Since much can be done at a distance, don't let your location weigh too much on your decision to interact.)

...and with that, hoping to hear from you! *Smiles*

[Previous versions of these essays:]

[A note: for those moving on to my match questions, bear in mind the explanations are an "in writing" sort of effort and are not done in my typical conversational tone. -Thanks.]