Sometimes I get awkward and/or geek out about stuff like language, politics, and , science, but I can be pleasant and charming and talk about normal stuff too. Though lately I've been spending a lot of time talking about emancipatory politics and feminist practice, and don't be afraid if I try and talk about them to you.
I recently saw this video which compares sexuality to musical jamming ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bgd3m-x46JU ) , in that it's a collaboration rather than a commodity, and the point is to enjoy the process. I think this generalizes relationships in general; I'm not psyched about gender roles or the assumptions of certain things that guys should do and certain things that girls should do in dates/relationships. Let's instead say fuck that old bullshit, we should figure out our expectations of each other together.