I love the spaces where seemingly contradictory things overlap: Childlike whimsy and old-man cantankerousness; high-concept lowbrow food; being simultaneously rugged and foppish; using humor to explain and process extremely serious things; mixing the sacred and profane.
The struggle towards social, racial, and economic justice is a big part of my life, so feminist and radical politics are things I do a lot.
I recently saw this video which compares sexuality to musical jamming ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bgd3m-x46JU ) , in that it's a collaboration rather than a commodity, and the point is to enjoy the process. I think this generalizes relationships in general; I'm not psyched about gender roles or the assumptions of certain things that guys should do and certain things that girls should do in dates/relationships. Let's instead figure out our expectations of each other together.