I do what I can for others, not because I think it makes me "win" in some arbitrary system, but because helping is the only thing a decent person should do.
Speaking of winning and arbitrary systems, I am an avid gamer. Card games, board games, video games, roleplaying games. I play them all, and love most of them to bits, finding it an excellent way to socialize.
For the record, I should add that I am committed to living the polyamorous lifestyle, and I am in two relationships as it stands.
One is long distance, the other is in Copenhagen.