I do what I can for others, not because I think it makes me "win" in some arbitrary system, but because helping is the only thing a decent person should do.
Speaking of winning and arbitrary systems, I am an avid gamer. Card games, board games, video games, roleplaying games. I play them all, and love most of them to bits, finding it an excellent way to socialize.
For the record, I should add that I am committed to living the polyamorous lifestyle, and I am in two relationships as it stands.
One is long distance, the other is in Copenhagen.
Extra emphasis should be placed on the fact that polyamorousy is NOT the same as an open relationship. I recommend looking it up before dismissing me as just another sex-crazed douche.