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  • Ages 24-45
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Feb 5, 2014
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My self-summary
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First thing you probably should know about me is that I don't exactly live a normal life (like so many in SF - bless this town!) and I really love it that way. If you're an adventurer, traveler, risk-taker, festival lover, free spirit, Burning Man aficianado, renaissance woman, healer, unstoppable dancing machine, you probably get it. Life can be that awesome, that creative, that fun, and yes, that magical!

For the most part, I live a new paradigm and my relationship model is like that too. I'm open minded, open hearted, and trust in non-possessive, open (at least semi-open) relationships. What I'm looking for is smart, sexy, sassy, fun lovers and sensual friends, people who really get "soul surfing" life and appreciating the magic of the present moment, a lovingly inappropriate joke, and delish quality time. They also understand a certain depth to the experience of life and are really kind to others.

Professionally I'm an author, healer, speaker." I'm originally a Colorado guy, but I spent several years in Europe and the last 11 years in NYC until moving to SF six months ago (totally digging the chiller West Coast). This year, I'm upgrading into teaching "Heart Magic Energy Medicine" with a little Tony Hawk style to it, and hosting "Psychonaut" transformational training classes. I also love surfing, skiing, snowboarding, and hitting some High Sierra trails, although I can also chill for a sunset, soak up a day at the spa, or meditate on rocks until my ass turns blue. I'm obsessed with anything fusing art, revolution, and renaissance.

At the moment, I'm most interested in meeting companions (and partners in crime) for fun, intimacy, romance, sensuality, and finding creative adventures in my favorite US city. I like people who follow their passions and continue to open their hearts, even if it's tough (and we know how that can go).

My main motto for 2014: "More fun, more joy, more love, more laughter," which seems to be working out so far.
What I’m doing with my life
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Launching a new line of cannabis enhanced healing workshops that's a little beyond my edge, starting my next book, decking out my new diggs with Colorado-like ranch memorabilia, creating fun surprises for my friends, and psyching myself up for some snowboarding and post-run hot tub soaking gazing up at the stars.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
"Bringing the party" to the festivals, conferences, and events I'm invited to speak or teach at.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Cheekbones, especially my gay friends - they really seem to like 'em, which I appreciate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: On the Road, The Brothers Karamazov, Ask the Dusk, The Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test, Carlos Castenada, Catcher in the Rye, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Virginia Woolf, Old crotchety Hemingway.

Movies: Blade Runner, Princess Bride, Drugstore Cowboy, The Way Way Back, movies by Kubrick, Wes Anderson, Woody Allen, Bertolucci, Fellini.

Music: Flaming Lips, Tycho, Washed Out, Velvet Underground, Bassnectar, Social D, Dylan, Daniel Lanois, Joy Division, Radiohead, Prince, Alabama Shakes, Starz, Animal Collective, Fleetwood Mac

Shows: Louis CK, Breaking Bad, Parks and Recreation, Twin Peaks (for old school), 70's Wonder Woman, Alaska: The Last Frontier, The Legend of Korra
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"Enhanced" Yoga
Seltzer Water (my replacement for soda for 15 years)
Magical Friends
My sister (she rocks)
Physical/Intimate Relationships
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm touring, I'm probably doing a talk/reading at a bookstore, followed by some afterparty by my hosts, swapping tales with everyone there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I secretly like that overproduced "yacht rock" from the late 70's/early 80s.
You should message me if
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If you're generally an open-hearted person who appreciates a good-bad joke, has a healthy attitude to sensuality, and high-fives your own adventurous spirit.