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34 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:32pm
Straight, Sapiosexual
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English, Japanese

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My self-summary
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A day with me could look like: We go to the gym and I train you hard. After the gym lunch/dinner somewhere private where our conversation will have space to explore, what are true desires are without judgement. When finished exploring, might massage each others sore bodies then sit in Ofuro (Japanese style bath) and then see where the night take us. The next morning I'll make us some amazing coffee while you sleep in a little bit.

I try to take life one moment at a time and be present in that moment. I try to affect those things I can and let go of the things I can't. Self-education is vital as I am always looking to make the most educated choices, I'm an avid learner, thinker and communicator.

I am a function over fashion person, High-tech over low-tech, I desire high quality not brand value. Science and fact over religion and faith. Knowledge and experience are greater than opinion, knowledge or experience alone. Complex vs. common, minimalism over ornamentation.

I am motivated to experience a few things deeply, instead of just many new things. I prefer small groups versus large ones. I believe in trying to always grow and change for the better.

I am looking for a relationships based on love, commonality, mutual respect, friendship, open communication and amazing sex. A partner that is looking to share her time with me and mine with her, and enjoys her freedom and is happy that I have mine too.

My profile filters were set to identify me as strictly-non monogamous and in an open relationship. I have removed these filters due to the double standards placed on men for self identifying as such a person.

I have need for authentic equality and for women's rights, and that need at times is also sensitive to the exclusion of men's rights. Liberal/intersectional feminism and the pursuit of equality and happiness without judgement for all people is a core part of my identify. Patriarchy hurts all.

I find almost all types of women beautiful, but intelligence is an extra special feature I find very attractive. I recognize and appreciate all types of different intelligences. My intelligences are strongest in emotional, communicational, spatial and technological. I identify as a Sapiosexual.
What I’m doing with my life
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Daily I'm looking to improve myself and my quality of life, by studying Aikido, Japanese/日本語, Art, reading and educating myself on the current science of physiology, psychology, nutrition, business and more; I'm a lifelong learner.

I'm in a process of preparation for a future where science will be able to dramatical change our lives, and how fit we are will determine how much we will be able to benefit from these changes. I believe by developing my mind and body; I will be better prepared to take advantage of modern medicines to rejuvenate the human body as they become available, these medicines are coming and will dramatic changes our lives and expectations for youth and life span.
I’m really good at
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Building and repairing things around the house.

Thinking about and communicating my feelings needs and desires. Listening to, considering and acting on yours.

Creating space to express your desires.

Making awesome coffee.

Giving massages, and touching you the way you want and need to be touched.

Listening to the sound your soul sings.

Mining OKC for new music recommendations to listen to.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My bright colored eyes, dark red beard and Golden red hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music, Movies and Books can at times have a huge impact on my feelings as I lose myself in their worlds; and I love the fact that I can be so moved by them.

Daily some dubstep/breakbeats and or electro/house are rocking my workouts or explore some new mixes/artists on soundcloud and spotify.

The Hitch Hikers guide to the Galaxy, Ghost Busters, the Borne series, LTOR, Harry potter series, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Inception, Lost in Translation (I like to think he whispers "I love you, I'll never forget you"), Donnie Darko (fuck that last scene, always gets me with "Mad world" playing), Vicky Cristina Barcelona.

Lost, Archer, BSG, Daily show, Breaking Bad, Game of thrones, Its always sunny, Arrested development, BBC Planet Earth and Blue Planet series

The music that taps into my soul: Autechre, Amon Tobin, Portishead, Radiohead, Aphex Twin,NIN, Massive Attack, Squarepusher, How to destroy Angels,

Shogun, The Watchmen, Old Mans war, Enders Game, Game of thrones, "I am an S&M writer" (title of the book(Oniroku Dan)), The Ronin, Harry potter, 1984 (this book made me cry), animal farm, watership down, Bill Watterson

For food, I am very interested in food with a purpose, nutrition science is very interesting to me and affects the way I eat. I love Japanese food (way more than just sushi)and Mexican food. I also have a bit of sweet tooth and from time to time enjoy great whisky and sake.

The top five places I intend to visit next.
Florida Keys state park
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
home theater (120" screen dedicated room style, I'm a H/T consultant),
memory foam bed,
protein drinks and vitamins.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The importance of the sound your soul sings, personal lexicons, individual's "wavelengths" and all those unspoken things that make two people click that can't be properly transferred digitally.

Emergence, and the flow of life.

Life and the future of city life; and what I can do to make it better/different/funner.

My new art work and things I would like to make/invent.

How in general people do not take enough time to care for themselves as much as they should, instead they spend most of their time working and entertaining themselves to escape the stress of daily life and to have fun, I don't think entertainment is bad I enjoy it often too, but a greater balance between work, play, and maintenance is a defining characteristic of me, in fact some things people may describe as "not fun" I enjoy greatly; like working out, eating healthier/functional foods (sweets sometimes) and sleeping.

Also room environments, acoustics and interior designs.

People who say they "love to work" are chumps, and seriously need a reality check.

The power of not saying everything and the ethical potential of this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Really Thursday night, I'm out visiting new art openings.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am very passionate and very open, there is very little off the table in the "physical communication" area for me. Poly, Kink, Dominant.

I have answered many of these questions very honestly there are lots of private things you can learn about me there if you take the time.

I have a darker side that my partners and I enjoy playing with in private and sometimes at parties.
You should message me if
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You could go to art gallery openings with me, you have the stomach to be in a crowded art gallery drinking PBR/brooklyn brew/cheap wine talking to interesting strangers, walking in the cold to go to the next gallery and find that the show was really not that good anyways, all for the chance to see something truly amazing.

Anyone who seriously practices/studies/refines martial arts, dancing/art/photography, working out, yoga or any singular activity regularly; therefore understands and values the time commitment these type of activities require.