I pride myself on being respectful and a gentleman. There's not too many of those left in this world it seems. I maintain high personal standards and will not, i repeat will not ever message you with things like "you're hot" or anything like that. I just don't believe in that type of behavior.
The problem is, I often times get judged before I'm known. If you can be mature and realize that I'm not looking for an instant relationship (i want it to grow the natural way, as friends first) then feel free to message me. If you think you can keep an open mind and not judge me before you know me personally ( i do have a lot to offer), then feel free to message me.