Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


30 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:51am
Asian, Black
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hows that check list of yours doing? Are you convinced of my awesome (yea thats what I call it, sexy no?) yet?

To be general, Id describe myself as a concoction of fun, mixed in with dashes of athleticism and spontaneity, folded in with quasi smart, then baked in silly at California temperature for 30 years. Chilled in the relaxed atmosphere of The Bay for the last few years and two shakes of spiritual awareness and open minded-ness added for taste, and garnished with a little goofy (as suggested by Mizzbrown215, thank you). And Im chill I just didnt know how to fit it in the above (horrible) metaphor. Ideas?

Less general and more specific Id say metaphors are not my forte and trying to sum my life and experiences up are not my forte either. But in attempting this:
AHEM *clears throat as steps onto soapbox*
Im a University student on an eternal quest for balance and harmony. I consider myself a growing adult-ish person. Im "adult-ish" because I am an adult yes, but it is a huge ass world and I will always remain young at heart with eyes wide open in order to see as much of this world as possible. Ive traveled the world, seen and had experiences not a lot of individuals will have and feel this has broadened my world and perspective. But I WANT MORE! I want to travel and see more to further enrich my life so I can bring back what Ive learned to friends and family and help enrich their lives as well. Also, I consider myself pretty damned-ed awesome if I dont say so myself...which I guess I just did.

Anyways, I love my close friends as brothers/sisters and would do almost anything for them and my family is my heart. I learn and grow with and because of these relationships. But sometimes I want to individually line all these people up and kick them in the neck repeatedly one by one until they pass out. Im kidding...kinda. What I mean is I love spending time with my family and friends, but I also need time to center myself.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, filling out this profile. By the time you read this, probably in class or something related to school.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Avoiding doing shit I should be doing...err ahem, I mean I am able to maintain a relaxed attitude despite impending doom for not responsibly taking care of my responsibilities. Run on sentences and other stuff...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How would I know? Most people comment on my eyes or racial ambiguity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite book? "Biomechanics" I get all gitty n stuff when I smell its pages...and the "Goosebumps" series. SCARY! Honestly, I hardly read when not in school.
Favorite movie...Starship Troopers...pure awesomeness
TV shows? Dont own a tv or watch shows
Music? My tastes and favorite artists continually shift, so for now Im diggin RJD2. Wax Tailor. Son House. Sade. Terence D'arby. Aerin Monroe. Latin Playboys. Erik Satie. Phillip Glass. Nina Simone. Jorge Ben (hes the MAN!). TM Juke. Quantic. A lil bit of Miles Davis. The Black Keys. Nas. Weeknd...others
Food? Yes please! ANYTHING!! Ill try almost any food at least once, probably twice because sometimes I forget why I didnt like it...except Cabeza...*shivers* never again
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ice cream. Travelling. Money for rent and food, and scheming how Ima get both...damn you reality. From the mundane and trivial to the deep stuff, theres a lot going on in this ol noggin just like anyone else.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chilling when not in school. When in school telling myself I should be studying while kicking myself as I go do something completely opposite of that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My mom is the only to ever call me a hunk....awkward! ALSO!! I was told I sound like a cocky bastahd on my profile...Im not really as cocky as this profile portrays....but I gotta git your attention somehow don't I?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your slightly ridiculous. Slightly goofy and dont take yourself too serious (which I hope your able to pick up from my profile that I am the sameway). You think your goofy/silly is in step with mine. Down for the spontaneous adventure, like taking a graffiti tour of the mean streets of West Oakland (seriously theres some pretty good street art here). Aint afraid to eat in front of a guy. You can appreciate a gentleman.

But seriously! Message me if your interested! Its cool and all if your traditional n stuff, but seriously this is online dating and it is okay if the lady is the first one to message. Juuuuuusayin!

Im going to invent a new section called "You should NOT message me if" and it would read like this:

You should NOT message me if you:
you are a stripper (actually theres nothing wrong with strippers and I dont mind em I just had to throw it in there for comedic effect), a crazy, have fake boobies, are scared of pitbulls, or going to message me with "Hi" or "Hey" (Ima need a lil more creativity than that puh-lease!)