I feel that when the motivation to possess another human being is eradicated, then you can really get to know them.
I firmly believe that the only reality that exists is now, the present moment. The future hasn't happened yet and the validity of the past is based on the very minds that trip us up in the first place. No need to be anywhere else but here.
It might be a smart move to not mistake passivity and a calm demeanor for a lack of mental firepower.
I am an evolving word warrior.