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JoseGlez

43 / M / Straight / Single

Ithaca, New York

His Details

Last Online
Jan 22
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 7″ (1.71m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Okay), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a 42 years old Spaniard. I am funny and like a good conversation. I can have serious talks about trivial things and talk jokingly about deep stuff (and vice versa, I guess...)

I always try to do the right thing, and I have suffered the consequences. By now I should know better, but it seems I don't learn.

I don't like to talk about myself, but I am doing an effort in this profile.

I'm kind of a geek. You can find me programming computers for fun, reading math or physics books or trying to derive a new formulation for a physical problem.

On the less geeky side, I also like to play guitar (I'm not very good, but I can play), draw comics (did I say less geeky?) or write short stories.

I used to like to go to bars (in Spain it's a slightly different concept), but nowadays I don't do it very often.
What I’m doing with my life
I am in the third year of a PhD in fluid mechanics. Things are going fine, but now I am starting to think what's the point of doing a PhD? It is not that I don't want to finish it, is just that suddenly it doesn't seem so important to me.
I’m really good at
I'm a good conversationalist.

I'm a problem-solver. I'm very good starting new projects (and bad finishing them, once all the main difficulties are gone).

I'm funny, even in English.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure because I don't think too much about the image other people has of me, but I will say:

- I am weird (in a good way ;-) )
- I am shy-ish (I don't know why because I usually don't feel like it, although there is something true about it).
- I am intelligent (again, is something I don't understand completely)
- I can debate about anything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In no particular order:

Books: Foucault's pendulum, Steppenwolf, A hundred years of solitude, The lord of the flies, 1984, any Sherlock Holmes...

Movies: To be or not to be (Lubitsch's, not Mel Brooks'), Pulp fiction, Bringing up baby, twelve monkeys, groundhog day...

Music: Bob Dylan, Beatles, Queen, Dire Straits, Johnny Cash...

Any food.
The six things I could never do without
My computer(s).
My e-reader.
My guitar.
Pencil and paper.
Time to think.
A good sleep.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I used to think in a lot of different stuff: Stories to write or film, programs to code, ways to fix the world... Now I have to focus in my PhD and I find difficult to do something else.

This summer I am also thinking in what I want to do with my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
I either stay at home or go out to dinner with a friend. There was a time when I felt bad if I stood a Friday at home, but not anymore ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have discovered I like kids. Well, this is not private, but it is something I didn't expect.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–46
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
- You liked my profile.
- You don't think that the man has to write always the first message ;-)