Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First and foremost, I'm in an open/polyamorous relationship.
Everything is done with the knowledge of my beautiful live in
partner. We're raising her two sons, plus two dogs, two cats, and
two rats. The boys are nearly grown men, but that doesn't mean they
don't need her or I at times. I was raised to put family first,
both my blood family and my selected family.
I'm a relationship guy. Not saying a quick bit of fun is out of the
question, but with limited time and resources, I want to focus on
quality. I want to get to know someone before venturing into the
real world, unless there's that crazy connection that happens right
I work as a user interface engineer, but I'm working on becoming a
writer. I also am a home gardener, though I need to spend more time
in the garden.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working to pay for today while planting seeds for the future.
Trying to be a good male role-model for my girlfriend's sons.
Trying to say yes more to things in life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I’ve got a near photographic memory. Depending on the subject, if
I’ve read it or heard it, I generally can recall it. It’s great for
impressing coworkers, younger siblings, and winning at Trivia
I've begun to dabble into the world of gardening with mild success.
There's nothing though like cooking with herbs that you grew
I also love cooking and exploring all sorts of culinary styles. I
especially like cooking for someone special on a night spent
I’m really good at listening. Sometimes I don’t just listen, but I
also try to help, either in providing some information that I’ve
learned over the years or by giving advice. I try to only do this
when invited to do so.
Also been told I give good massages.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Lately it's my beard and long hair, then I'm told my eyes and
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Lots of non-fiction, especially about the classical world.
Big fan of Kim
, Laurell K. Hamilton
and Anne Rice
also am a huge fan of George
R.R. Martin's Song of Ice and Fire
series. Love all sorts of
graphic novels as well.
Movies: I am a Kevin Smith
fan. I like thought
provoking movies as well as the big blockbuster. Quentin Tarantino
high on my list of directors, plus most movies with Robert DeNiro
Music: I love nearly all types of music, but I'm a hard rock
and heavy metal
type of guy when
it's all boiled down to it.
Food: Eclectic palate here. I'm a huge fan of Greek, Italian,
Turkish, Indian, and Mexican. Also recently rediscovered the joy of
sushi and adore sashimi.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Seriously there's like the basics, food, water, air, shelter,
warmth, and human interaction. Throw in a scruffy dog to pal around
with and I’d be a happy hunter-gatherer. But beyond that, like what
do I as a modern human living in the 21st century need?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Different stuff on different days. Some of it I can't even explain.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There aren't really any typical Friday nights. There are a few
options I normally have, but there's room for more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My life is pretty much an open book...so if there's something you
want to know, drop me a line!
You should message me if
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