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Josh_Erb

22 M Durham, NC

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–23
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:40am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First of all, lots of people post in this section that they're just here for fun, but I'm actually looking for a relationship (or at least to date and see what's out there). I figure that for my age cohort, this is probably a better option than something like Match.com.

I'm at a pretty demanding point right now in my professional life. I just started a PhD program at Duke in the Neurobiology Dept., and am training for a career in academia. To compound my professional nerdiness, I also enjoy things like D&D, Battlestar Galactica, fantasy RPGs, etc. I can also get pretty nerdy about music (yeah, I read Pitchfork, and am not ashamed).

I consider myself an intelligent person, and this is important to me. I graduated cum laude from Columbia University with degrees in Neuroscience and English literature (mostly specializing in the English Renaissance). Despite the demands of the program, I still try to read as much extracurricular literature as possible, and would be thrilled to meet a fellow avid reader.

I grew up in Durham, though I nevertheless feel socially adrift coming back here after living in NYC. It's my belief that everyone lives a different story and has something unique to contribute, so I'm looking to meet new people, learn from them, and hopefully develop a fulfilling relationship.

Also, I have strong opinions about pretty much everything. Sometimes, I can be overbearing about them, but I always love to have them challenged.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently in Durham working on a PhD in Neurobiology at Duke. Haven't technically fixed on a lab yet, but I'll probably be working with Dr. Platt on the neurobiology of decision making in macaques.

My broader research interests have to do with how the brain processes self-other distinctions and how these distinctions are related to one's perceptual environment. I am working toward the day when I have the resources and latitude to pursue this subject independently (check back in 20 years).

I'm also working on expanding my social circle and finding a niche for myself here. I would love to get more involved in the rich cultural production of Durham, it's art, music, and performance. Oh, and of course it's food!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analyzing things, people, and ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height. Or the beard (which, I might add, I now regularly trim XD)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I simply don't know where to begin with this category. However, I will say that Proust's In Search of Lost Time is the single most impressive novel I have ever read. To all the non-believers out there: yes, it is better than Ulysses.

Movies: I am completely ignorant about film.

Shows: Various geek staples (Battlestar Galactica, Dr. Who, Firefly) as well as Parks and Recreation, 30 Rock, and Portlandia.

Music: I like music that challenges the listener. I expect my music to create space. Here are some of the artists I listen to:

65daysofstatic, Air, Aphex Twin, Baths, Broken Bells, Broken Social Scene, Burial, Caribou, Clams Casino, Crystal Castles, Delorean, Destroyer, DJ Shadow, Eliot Lipp, Fennesz, Flying Lotus, Four Tet, Gang Gang Dance, Girls, Glasser, How To Dress Well, Imogen Heap, James Blake, Kings of Convenience, LCD Soundsystem, M83, MGMT, The Most Serene Republic, Mount Kimbie, My Bloody Valentine, Neon Indian, Nick Drake, Nicolas Jaar, of Montreal, Oriol, Portishead, The Postal Service, The Radio Dept., Radiohead, Salem, Shabazz Palaces, Sigur Ros, Stars, St. Vincent, Surfer Blood, Teebs, and Zombie.

Food: Peanut butter, eggs, bagels, chocolate of various kinds, and tikka masala.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My Headphones
-Google Scholar (why are you so much better than PubMed?)
-Diet Coke
-Black-out curtains
-Hookah (I frequently go to hookah lounges to read. Note, however, that I do not smoke cigarettes.)
-Self-respect
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Space exporation, nuclear disarmament, the problems of organized religion, international government, consciousness and the Gestalt school of psychology. Also etymology, for some reason.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading 18th century political philosophy at a hookah lounge.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've read more than a couple romance novels. And not in the renaissance sense.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're looking to go on a date. It's my experience that one doesn't really learn to much about a person by chatting with them online. Also message me if you're a great reader of fiction or are involved in the arts: I would love to branch out from my discipline.