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22 M Durham, NC

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Last Online
Sep 19
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
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Relationship Type
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a nerd: a science nerd, a fantasy nerd, a music nerd, what-have-you. I am, however, also a committed academic: a research neuroscientist aspiring to make his way to a professorship and a lab of his own one day. I also have a passion for literature and philosophy--I am always reading something.

I graduated cum laude from Columbia University with degrees in Neuroscience and English. I think myself intelligent, and am unabashedly proud of it. Although I am confident in my person, I am constantly anxious to be more. I am never without a goal.

I love to meet different kinds of people and learn from them. Everyone lives by a different standard, has something unique to contribute, and is an unfathomable universe unto themselves. I'm a fan of plumbing the unfathomable.

Perhaps the most interesting thing I've ever done is to have swum in the Amazon River at night. Stars beyond what I had ever seen were reflected in its horizonless expanse. It was like swimming in space. Unfortunately, I got dysentery the next day.

I have strong opinions about things. Sometimes, I can be overbearing about them, but I always love to have them challenged.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently in Durham working on a PhD in Neurobiology at Duke. Haven't technically fixed on a lab yet, but I'll probably be working with Dr. Platt on the neurobiology of decision making in macaques.

My broader research interests have to do with how the brain processes self-other distinctions and how these distinctions are related to one's perceptual environment. I am working toward the day when I have the resources and latitude to pursue this subject.

I'm also working on expanding my social circle and finding a niche for myself here. I would love to get more involved in the rich cultural production of Durham, it's art, music, and performance. Oh, and it's food!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analyzing things, people, and ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height. Or the beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I simply don't know where to begin with this category. However, I will say that Proust's In Search of Lost Time is the single most impressive novel I have ever read. To all the non-believers out there, yes, it is better than Ulysses.

Movies: I am completely ignorant about film.

Shows: Various geek staples (Battlestar Galactica, Dr. Who, Firefly) as well as Parks and Recreation, 30 Rock, and Portlandia.

Music: I like music that challenges the listener. I expect my music to create space. Here are some of the artists I listen to:

65daysofstatic, Air, Aphex Twin, Baths, Broken Bells, Broken Social Scene, Burial, Caribou, Clams Casino, Crystal Castles, Delorean, Destroyer, DJ Shadow, Eliot Lipp, Fennesz, Flying Lotus, Four Tet, Gang Gang Dance, Girls, Glasser, How To Dress Well, Imogen Heap, James Blake, Kings of Convenience, LCD Soundsystem, M83, MGMT, The Most Serene Republic, Mount Kimbie, My Bloody Valentine, Neon Indian, Nick Drake, Nicolas Jaar, of Montreal, Oriol, Portishead, The Postal Service, The Radio Dept., Radiohead, Salem, Shabazz Palaces, Sigur Ros, Stars, St. Vincent, Surfer Blood, Teebs, and Zombie.

Food: Peanut butter, eggs, bagels, chocolate of various kinds, and tikka masala.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My Headphones
-Google Scholar (why are you so much better than PubMed?)
-Diet Coke
-Black-out curtains
-Hookah (I frequently go to hookah lounges to read. Note, however, that I do not smoke cigarettes.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Space exporation, nuclear disarmament, the problems of organized religion, international government, consciousness and the Gestalt school of psychology, and etymology, for some reason.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading 18th century political philosophy at a hookah lounge.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've read more than a couple romance novels. And not in the renaissance sense.
You should message me if
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You're looking for a nice evening, good conversation, and maybe something more.