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55 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45-70
  • Near me
  • For casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 2:00pm
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Judaism but it’s not important
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Weird, aging Jewish Dead head from New York City. I work in the computer industry but spend as much time as possible in nature, a dyed in the wool tree hugger. My politics are pretty eccentric, a cross between Deep Green (think Earth First) and European socialist. I'm pretty harmless, I have a way with animals, small children like me, they think I'm a big kid, adults well not so much.

I used to have another profile here but somehow it got deleted. A little annoying, there are many things to wound up over in life but this is not one of them.

Right out of the gate, I am polyamorous. I know for many that is not their cup of tea and that's cool but I believe that adults need to know the facts so they can make an informed choice.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working for the day when sell off all my positions including the house and split to Humboldt county. In the mean time, in the words of Elvis Costello, "Welcome to the working week. I know it don't thrill you, I hope it don't kill you."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making coffee, cooking, finding my way in the woods, pitching a tent in the rain (my personal best is 3 minutes 45 seconds)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Monkey Wrench Gang, A Sand County Almanac, Cadillac Desert, Silent Sprint, Walden

Music: Grateful Dead, Phish, Bob Dylan, American Analog Set, Nico, REM, Brian Eno, Penguin Cafe, Captain Beefheart.
As far as I'm concerned there are 3 kinds of music; The stuff I have not heard, the stuff I have heard and it sucked and the stuff I have heard and it did not suck. I'll listen to anything a couple of times.

Movies: Gasland, Jeramiah Johnson, The 7th Seal, Rivers of a Lost Coast, Wings of Desire, Koyaanisqatsi
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
coffee, sex, books, music, my cats, trees, gravity, sunlight, photosynthesis. Yes, I know that is more then six
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trees, computers, cats, what the hell is that noise?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Taking my shoes off (I don't like wearing shoes), having a glass of wine, glad the work week is over.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once voted for a republican. It was Dennis Peron and only because he wanted to legalize pot.
You should message me if
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Why not? It could be fun, the worst thing that could happen is you think I'm an idiot and you block me.