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JoshuaGrinn

29 / M / straight / Available

Montpelier, Vermont

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am Intelligent, Easygoing, and passionate.

My Self-Summary

Hi I'm Josh.
Letsee... I won't bother giving you my ht, wt, eyecolor and all that junk since this isn't a roleplaying game and If you want to know than you can look at my page. Instead let me try to give you an idea of my character: I am dramatic (In the theatrical sense not the other abrasive kind.), I think that trying to save the natural world from mankind is oxymoronic and silly. I almost never use shorthand, abbreviations or L33t when I'm typing or instant messaging, It's not that I'm against it, it's just that I have a good vocabulary and I like to use it. Sometimes after making a peanut butter and jelly sandwich I put the peanutbutter in the fridge and the jelly on the shelf and can't find the bread again. I'm married, but like so many other marriages the fire has gone.my wife and I do not currently have a romantic relationship. she has a live in boyfriend and i'm very happy for her.That being said I have started to miss physical companionship quite a bit. not just the carnal aspects but the whole range of cuddling and hugging and watching cartoons under a blanket. I love coffee. Coffee may not be the proof beer is that god loves us and wants us to be happy, as Ben Franklin said, but at least it's a subtle assurance he wants us to be awake. I write, Badly. Well probably not so badly. I'm more burdened with a overabundance of inspiration. I'll get an idea that's worth a whole miniseries or trilogy, and then only get a few chapters in before the next muse is on the way. If only I could spank her and make her sit in the corner on an angular horse untill i'm ready for her. oh well.
As far as you people are concerned I want to meet you all. I may be the least judgmental and most unblinking person you'll ever meet so don't be shy, I would love to meet people close by to talk with in person, I would equally love to meet those of you who are far away, you can never have too many pen pals :-) Drop me a line, send me an add request, show up and dance the Watusi on the statehouse lawn until I wander by. Let's be friends, let's wander down the good red road for a while and see how many flowers we can pick before we part.
--Joshua

I’m really good at

Story telling. Ever since I was a kid.

The first things people usually notice about me

My sense of humor and my eyes, (Or so they tell me)

The six things I could never do without

Coffee
Terry Pratchett's books
A good back rub once in a while
The occasional wild night of naughty abandon.
A blue collar job
A good Laugh now and then

You should message me if

You think I'm Hot.
You think I'm Funny.
You think we might have fun together doing Vanilla stuff (Movies,Hiking,Swordfighting,People watching)
You think we might have fun together doing not so vanilla stuff (Dating, petting, Having an afore mentioned night of wild naughty abandon)
You want to talk about books you like.
You want to know more about me.