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JosiahSeale
28 / m / bisexual / Single
Chestnut Hill, Massachusetts, United States
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Ethnicity Hispanic / Latin, White
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Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
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Education Graduated from masters program
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Kids N/A
Pets Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Okay), Swahili (Poorly)
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My Notes edit
My self-summary
Academically, I just finished a combined undergrad/master's degree doing quant modeling of violence in sub-Saharan Africa. I did some qualitative work there, too, on the proliferation of small arms and light weapons (such as AK-47's) among three tribes in Kenya's North Rift. Specifically, I examined the way cultural constructs of manhood and womanhood play into the whole equation. I'm a Judith Butler fan, if you care.
I really love to read, but somehow I find it easier to read poetry than prose. My secret shame is that I now want to grow up to be an English lit professor and teach about American Modernist poetry in the early to mid 20th century. Mainly Ezra Pound, but the rest of them too. I'm working on a syllabus for a (free, no-credit) class I'm teaching next January. Don't laugh.
What I'm doing with my life
I'm still trying to figure out the whole "relationship" thing -- I married my best friend when I was 22 and she left last year. We're still best friends and hang out all the time, which is disconcerting sometimes, but it's working for both of us, so we're basically running with it.
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My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I am a Nabokov fan and am currently hacking my way through King, Queen Knave, which I'm finding to be slower going than Ada, Lolita or Pale Fire. [Edit: I just finished it, and it was unsurprisingly good and worth reading but not as much so as Ada, Lolita or Pale Fire.] Books I have started multiple times but never finished: Finnegans Wake, Rayuela.
I don't own a TV, and yes, I know Stuff White People Like makes fun of me for it. I enjoy any movies from Peter Greenaway, especially Prospero's Books and The Cook, The Thief, His Wife and Her Lover. I also like Catherine Breillat's stuff (e.g. Romance, Une Vielle Maitresse), Swimming Pool from Francois Ozon, Shortbus from John Cameron Mitchell and Y Tu Mamá También from Alfonso Cuarón. I was blown away by The Diving Bell and The Butterfly.
Music varies. We might have an interesting conversation about the way the internet is making music tastes cohere less among young people today. More people are listening to more random shit. Or at least, I am listening to more random shit, along mildly related threads. Some of these are:
the broad 80s (Guns n' Roses, Depeche Mode, David Bowie, etc.) thread
the vague Spanish rock (Heroes del Silencio, Soda Stereo/Cerati, Kinky, Elefante, Bacilos, Babasónicos, Bunbury, Caramelos de Cianuro, etc.) thread
the more tightly defined underground hip-hop (Alias, Jel, Doseone, RJD2, anything from the Anticon label, some stuff from Ninja Tune, etc.) thread
Threads I go in and out of: Nueva Trova (Silvio Rodriguez & Co.), Neo-Folk (Vetiver, Devendra Banhart, Joanna Newsom, etc.)
Natalie Merchant is my favourite singer and Ophelia my favourite album.
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The most private thing I'm willing to admit here
I named my red motorcylce "Simone" after the character in Bataille's The Story of the Eye, because the idea of riding her gets me hot. Pretty bad, I know. I ride her ssc when I have a passenger and rack when I'm by myself, which should tell you something about me, too. :-) If you haven't read the book already, you probably shouldn't.
I like the TKB better than Midori, at least from a practical standpoint.
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