I am a widow of approaching five years, surprised to find I enjoy
the independence of being single. Although I am surrounded by
loving relatives and friends I found the need for companionship and
love I didn't realize before that I needed. And I thought I found
it. Before I go on, I need to hasten to add that i am seeing
someone. (I'm certain I added this before......but clearly it's
gone). I wanted to put "seeing someone" in place of single, but was
advised it had to be available. Which turns out to be more true
than I could imagine. Why. You say, the change? Long story
My lover did tell me when we started that I wasn't the only one he
was seeing. As we got more involved I became concerned that I might
be a home wrecker. In an attempt to assure me, he indicated That
there were two others both widows like me. Both had only been with
their husbands before him and both of been tested and were
At this point, I was told by friend and relatives that I should
keep my options open, so I reluctantly decided to change my profile
at Cupid (my favorite website) so there you have it. Sorry if not
including this misled anyone. My humble apologies.
That said, let me continue with the description of the kind of
person I am. I can be playful and fun to be with. I can be turned
on by intellect, humor, and I have a spontaneous personality. My
approach to life is being positive---whiny complaining and
destructive sarcasm or put downs aren't welcome.
Recently I rediscovered my art --painting-transitional abstract
impressionistic- and fans have discovered it as well. by those I am
now hailed as artist---long used to the title, teacher, I am amazed
by the new recognition. Message me and I'll tell you how to see my
Finally a last update--- in the process of self discovery, I have
discovered a bit of kink in my personal makeup. Could use an
understanding friend re this.
What I’m doing with my life
Getting better in every way every day--making new friends. Doing
new paintings, Entering in a few shows. Just sold one at a Guild
show. Painting walls in hall a light color and installing new light
fixture so can see paintings better And I had my own personal art
show at the Edgewater senior center for two months -February
through March last year and I'm offered it again this year---anyhow
you get the idea?
I’m really good at
I'm really good at creative things and putting things together to
see if they fit. I am also good at being loyal and being a good
friend. I'd add making love but it's been so long , suffice it to
say--I used to be a great lover and assume it's like riding a
bicycle!! Lol updated: yep I was right. It's a new world out there
Tell you more when I get to know you....
The first things people usually notice about me
Is my enthusiasm and my smile and my winsome but quiet personality.
And my joy.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like all science fiction and some fantasy and will also read
novels by authors such as Wilber Smith and have read every Dick
Frances book at least three times. But all well witten fiction has
appeal. I enjoy online scrabble- words with friends, WWF. Watch
well rated movies with oldest daughter upon occasion, on her
fabulous large screen TV
More updating: Now reading on my kindle : Sex in the Seasoned Woman
by Gail Sheehy, the Loving Dominant by John and Libby warren, and
Fifty Shades of Grey by E L James.
I listen to and enjoy all kinds of music--mainly in my car, where I
have been known to sing along with Credence Clearwater or meditate
with Mozart or Beethoven. And recently pop and dance music from
disks compiled by my 23 yearold grandson---loud! (well, in the car
Update. Listen to music recorded by my 25 year old grandson--LOUD.
Recently decided my personal theme song is "Try" by Pink. As a
result of this exposure, I avidly follow events in TV show "the
Voice " along with my grandson.
My favorite foods are homemade tacos with hard shells and coffee
ice-cream. Update Lime Greek yogurt also.
One of my most favorite friends is my puppy Gobi. Before he arrived
on the scene I thought I was a just a cat person.
The six things I could never do without
iPhone and iPad
My pets- Gobi and Trevor
Someone to love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I have to do next, whatever art I'm working on, friends and
If I had a love, about him.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing Words with Friends, watching a movie w family, reading,
texting. Talking on the phone. Relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is I can cry i when moved by movie or book.
You should message me if
You're willing to discuss relationship with me, chat in general and
be a supporting friend.