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32 Los Angeles, CA Man


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  • Ages 25–31
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:31pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Some may say that I am a highly intelligent, scatter-brained, messy underachiever with plenty to do and relatively zero motivation to do any of it. I wouldn't, but some may say such things, and they would not be entirely incorrect. Incentivize me at your own risk because I'm a whirling dervish once set loose. Most of the time I'm quiet but quick to jump in when I have something to add. I will form and defend an opinion for the sake of debate (not to be confused with arguing/fighting, which I do not enjoy). Debating ideas we do not hold or share is the only way to mutual clarity. I dream much bigger than reality allows, which tends to be in direct conflict with my feet-on-the-ground approach to life. My life is my journey to coalesce these concepts.

In general, I agree with OKCupid's personality assessment of me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as an Event Technology Specialist for a conference center and banquet hall. That's a fancy title for a less fancy job.

I have a lot of seemingly random interests and plenty of ongoing projects to keep me busy, though most of my time seems to disappear consuming media. I am currently designing and building an automated greenhouse to grow my own organic food.

I like to get out and do stuff when I'm free. You know, stuff -- all those things we say we like because it sounds entertaining or because we did it once 10 years ago and vaguely remember not totally hating it. Going to the LA Tar Pits for a couple hours last year proves I'm cultured and well rounded, right? I also surf (twice in my life), ski (just the one time), wake board (for about 15 seconds before I wipe out), and have set foot in four countries (U.S., Canada, Tijuana, and Texas).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Starting new projects! Finishing them... not so much.

I have spent the last 20 years or so working in technology so that probably tops my list in expertise. Hardware, software, whatever... just give me a few minutes to brush up and get my bearings.

Over-engineering and cross-engineering simple problems to find better solutions. There's usually a nugget or two left once I weed out the terrible ones, and there are usually a lot of terrible ones.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My face, usually wrapped in, "Has anyone ever told you that you look like Bon Jovi?" I used to get Mick Jagger a lot too. If I had to pick one thing right now, it's probably my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shows: "Allons-y Allonso!", "There's always money in the banana stand.", "Engage!", "Shivakamini Somakandarkram!", "Happy happy happy.", "I'm a consulting detective.", " Two by two. Hands of blue.", "You know spies... bunch of bitchy little girls.", "Winter is coming."

Music: Pandora Shuffle (Mornings - John Butler Trio/Rusted Root, Work - Daft Punk/Lindsey Stirling/Escala/David Garrett, Nights/Weekends - NIN/The Prodigy/Marilyn Manson/Covenant) Seed of the week: Pat Benatar.

Food: Spicy, like dripping sweat spicy. Also, just about anything stuffed with cheese. My thoughts on "habanero poppers" would surely give Pavlov something to study.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most" -- Mark Twain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... simple solutions to complex problems, complex solutions to simple problems, and inevitable problems with any solution.

... the Kobayashi Maru.

... how to permanently wipe all "mustache on a stick" and "mustache on a finger" pics from the internet.

A tutor who tooted the flute tried to tutor two tutors to toot. Said the two tutors to the tutor, "Is it tougher to toot than to tutor two tutors to toot?" AY!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping after a long week, or drinking 'til I find a better activity (hopefully involving drinking and dancing). It's really a toss up depending on how long the week felt; relativity, right... (155)(absinthe^2)=Go!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've messed with Texas and I'd do it again.

I'm smarter than most people think I am; I'm probably not as smart as I think I am; I'm definitely smarter than necessary.
You should message me if
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... you don't mind dry snark and clever wit.

... you want to have either a meaningful or meaningless conversation -- I do both equally well.

... the idea of living in the middle of the desert on a futuristic farm sounds exciting.

... the idea of living in a tiny houseboat off the coast of Alaska for a few months sounds tolerable.

... you want to go camping or hiking in real nature, not just undeveloped urban "nature."

... your eyebrows aren't painted on.

You SHOULD NOT message me if:
... you are zaftig. If you weigh more than me, that's probably a deal-breaker unless you've got a really fit Amazon thing going on.

... you don't have a job and aren't in school, unless you're legitimately between jobs (short term) or independently wealthy and find productively throughout your day by other means.

... all you do when not at work/school is complain about work/school. I would have gone into social work if I wanted to hear people whine about how unfair life is to them.

... you capitalize He, Him, and His on a regular basis. I do not subscribe to the proper noun usage of these pronouns.

... you have a mustache.