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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Judaism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Point blank: I like me, so I won't be shattered if you don't.

I'm a reasonably intelligent dude with a lot of things to say, but I've also been rigorously trained to listen. I live for open and honest communication so much that it's become my profession.

I'm a middle child, which has taught me the value of compromise and to frame my own ambitions within the greater good.

I'm an enabler -- in the positive sense -- a collaborator and a facilitator, an artist who has his own vision but is also sneakily good at bringing someone else's goal to fruition.

And finally: I'm ready to meet the right person. I've gone through the career-obsessive and the serial dating phases of my life and I'm at the stage where I'm ready for something real.
What I’m doing with my life
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I followed my inner compass. And it brought me here. I've had plans, I've lived them and I've seen the many ways they can alternately come to fruition or dead-end in a heap.

In all honesty, I'm living by my wits. I have the kind of job that makes people say things like, "Yeah, that fits," when they find out what I do. But I don't know that I want to do it forever.

I suppose at this point I'm more open to the limitless possibility of tomorrow than I ever have been before. I want to meet the right person and start the next adventure in my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can write. And I mean anything.

I don't believe in writer's block. The words are always there. I do believe in life-block; Sometimes you just don't want to write.

Journalism is my stock-in-trade, but I'd like to ultimately write novels one day. I often entertain myself (and select others) with haiku, song parody lyrics and hastily prepared amateur rap.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm pretty reserved at first, so I'm not quite sure what people see. But when I'm comfortable, I'm dynamic and volcanic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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For attitude: Fletch.
For philosophical truth: It's a Wonderful Life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm a minimalist ... I can do without anything.

Give me good conversation and fresh water and that's my world.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making sure my dog is happy, exercised and well-fed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either at a ballgame or trying hard not to think about baseball.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I want to be your lover, baby;
I don't want to be your boss.
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