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JourneyAlways

40 / M / Straight / Single

Santa Cruz, California

His Details

Last Online
Jun 17
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Education
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hi! Thanks for reviewing my profile.

I am originally from Northeast US and super fortunate to have resided in the Caribbean and Europe. Living abroad was rewarding personally and professionally. These experiences opened my eyes to new cultures and different ways of doing business. Some of my closest friendships were formed while traveling around Europe and I'm good at keeping connected with the important people in my life.

I've been living in Northern CA for a few years and I'm really happy here. In fact, by day 4 or 5 days of most business trips, I can't wait to get home. That's a good sign.

I'm seeking a committed relationship full of new experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been in financial services IT for some time with many rewarding experiences and successes to reflect upon.
I enjoy traveling so every 2-3 months I am trying to determine where to go for a get-away. Favorite recent destinations: Singapore and Tulum, Mexico.
I’m really good at
my job; being a good friend; mentoring; and comforting people going through a rough time.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and laugh. Also, people assume I am from the Midwest, so they are surprised when I say, "I am a New Yorker!" Basically, I don't have a New York accent at all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Book: The Alchemist
Favorite Authors: Howard Bloom, Paulo Coelho, John Grisham.
Currently Reading: 33 Questions About American History You’re Not Supposed to Ask

Movies: The Hangover, Hitch, The Long Kiss Goodnight, Sherlock Holmes, The King's Speech, The DaVinci Code, Matrix, & more

Music - Depends on my mood -- Alternative, Reggae, Soul, Jazz, Classical, and Opera. Specifically, Amos Lee, O.A.R., Dave Matthews Band, Oasis, The Doors, The Smiths, Hootie & The Blowfish, Seal, Sting Coldplay, The Goo Goo Dolls; Bob Marley, Stephen Marley; Etta James, Curtis Mayfield, India Arie, Nina Simone, Shirley Bassey, Ray Charles, Nat King Cole, Des'ree, Wynton Marsalis, Marvin Gaye, etc.

Favorite Hot Spots: Domestic ~ NYC, San Diego & Santa Cruz. International ~ Amsterdam, London, Negril, Paris, Prague, Rome, & Stockholm.

Favorite Things to Do: Trying new restaurants, Wine bars, Travel, & Live performances.
The six things I could never do without
Family, Friends, Passport, Music, Dancing, Jamaican cuisine :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
- Travel plans to countries I have not visited yet
- Personal and professional growth
- Settling down / Establishing roots
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends at a restaurant, wine bar, jazz club, or cocktail lounge. I work from home a lot so when Friday rolls around I am itching to get out & about. I enjoy socializing and simply meeting interesting people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Quite a bit is shared already in public, so let's get to know each other and I will disclose more as appropriate.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
- You believe we could have a great connection.
- You're genuinely interested in a relationship based on trust, honesty, partnership, communication, respect, and want to have loads of fun.
- Not just seeking a "friends with benefits" relationship.
- You are willng to connect by phone and meet in person to determine if we actually have chemistry.

Thank you and all the best with your search :-)