I am a curious, compassionate, complex woman who enjoys her own company most of the time. My childhood and adolescent fantasies were more about adventure, selfless service, and/or awesome lovemaking and dancing in sync with a great dance partner, than they were about weddings or babies or raising a family, so i guess I've always danced to a different drummer. I came close to marrying several times, but something always seem to come up for me, or my to be.
These days I still aspire to selfless service, locally or abroad and my hormones don't distract me as much. But I look forward to sharing some good lovemaking with the right partner and hopefully one that will last.
Hard to fit all of my desires into this life, with work, self care and maintaining a home. I realize it's a tall order but ideally I would like to find a man I can share true deep soul intimacy with, a man who has semi-compatible aspirations and interests. A man with young children or grandchildren would be a plus, as this might fill in the gaps of what I missed by not raising children. Guess I am appreciating family bonds more after caring for my Alzheimer's mom alone for 15 months. It helped me look deeper at what may have been running some of my life choices.
My friendships have long been based more upon common interests and activities then about spending time with a particular person, but that seems to be changing too. I had such a passionate curious mind about everything life had to offer, that I didn't have much time left for those who didn't share my interests.