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Joviano

52 M Lafayette, CO

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Hinduism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English, Portuguese (Fluently), Arabic (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am an openhearted, creative, energetic, and intellectually stimulating man. I also have an irrepressible sense of humor. Throughout my life I have always found a few close friends and lovers with whom I have cultivated deep connections.

I relate well to women and I am open to different kinds of relationships. At this point in my life I am open to finding someone for a long-term committed polyamorous relationship, but 'friends with benefits' is another fun new way of relating. I also have female buddies, 'just friends', but good friends with whom we can be ourselves without having to wear masks. Yes, I also have male friends, mostly musicians.

I maintain a daily hatha yoga practice, and I love to dance, so I have become an aficionado of Nia, Zumba, and Five Rhythms. I love to play music on my flutes, clarinet and drums, and I go to India every winter to play with the many musicians who congregate there. I have just finished translating and editing a book for a spiritual teacher.

I have spent a significant part of my life residing in other countries, and I have always been drawn to mysticism, perhaps my religious affiliation is best described as "Hind-Jew", but I can't abide too much orthodoxy.

I am sexually enthusiastic, but having had the opportunity to sow wild oats over the last few years I realize that the best sex comes with a real heart connection. I like eye contact and smiles to lead to caressing and kisses etc., but without the connection it can be...off.

I have been practicing Taoist chakra energy channeling for twenty years. I have great control and can stay "interested" for a long time. I am gentle and lovingly expressive: I am energetic, but I don't like rough stuff or anal. I definitely don't get off on sadism or masochism; my way is to send light and love to everyone, starting with the person in bed with me!

I have been married for 15 years to a gorgeous blond goddess with a heart of gold, and we have an incredible 13 year-old boy. We are in an open marriage, or, if you prefer, polyamorous. We decided about six years ago to let our marriage metamorphize from a "caterpillar" into a "butterfly" by opening our horizons to new erotic and emotional experiences with people who understand that we are dedicated to each other but open to new fun and love in our lives. She has had a boyfriend for three years and I have had a girlfriend who with whom I am now platonic, but the good news is that, by and large, it has been a very positive experience. So if you are even curious, don't let my being married stop you. If you like me, you'll like her, and if you like her, she'll like you.
What I’m doing with my life
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Since returning from living abroad four years ago, we have been living here in Lafayette (near Boulder) and glad to be here, but I will be back in Rishikesh India in January and February to continue my musical pursuits.
I hope to continue translating and editing, as returning to teaching holds little appeal, and as I am not driven by necessity, it looks different. I am enjoying being an active dad. Since my son already speaks Spanish and Portuguese from our foreign sojourn, we are now starting in with some French.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a connected and responsive lover.
Being a good friend and a sympathetic listener
Being a loving dad
Translation and interpretation
accompanying guitarist/singers with my instruments in a harmonious way
vegetarian cooking (curry, anyone?)
dancing
introspection
perceiving what my companion is feeling
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a tall memorable Jewish guy with a big name!
Eye contact and (usually) a big smile.
Great shape
NOT your average guy.
well dressed (but hopefully not foppish!) "hippie-chic"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Spirituality:
Mooji, Eckhart Tolle, Ram Das, Paramahamsa Yogananda, Osho.
Rumi

Stranger in a Strange Land
Isabel Allende
Paulo Coelho
Joseph Conrad

French films
Classic cinema: eg. Marx Brothers
Folk, rock, bhajans
Indian and Middle Eastern food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"Things": Water, Shelter from the sun, rain or cold. A passport. Some instruments, (or at least a bamboo flute).

"The Thing": love in my heart
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How lucky I am.
How we can heal the planet.
my own thought processes and emotions - stepping back to observe and understand.
How wonderful it is that, at least a few minutes at a time, I can stop the incessant chatter of the mind through meditation, and how nice it would be to get better at it.
How I can see God in everyone and become less judgmental.
How we can help the Arabs and Israelis make peace.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
As that is "kids-night-out" we are free to do whatever we want. We usually take advantage of the opportunity privately or on occasion, semi-privately. This is why we have dubbed it "Freaky Friday"!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love to love and to be loved.
You should message me if
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the possibility of getting close in a joyful sharing way sounds like something you could imagine, and you are attracted and intrigued by the spiritual and emotional potential in exploring a relationship with me.