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32 F Astoria, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:03am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"The most terrifying fact about the universe is not that it is hostile but that it is indifferent; but if we can come to terms with this indifference and accept the challenges of life within the boundaries of death—however mutable man may be able to make them—our existence as a species can have genuine meaning and fulfillment. However vast the darkness, we must supply our own light.” - Stanley Kubrick
What I’m doing with my life
I have a background in film/photography, and currently work in wine. I'm at a point in my life where I'm looking to transition and am not sure in what realm that will be...possibly a job that combines the two passions. I miss being a cinematographer and know that I will make my way back to that in some realm.

For now I'm a buyer/manager at a wine and spirits shop in NYC, and it might be one of the more interesting jobs out there. I have had the opportunity to travel abroad, meet amazing winemakers and distillers, and connect with wine, spirits and food on a more intense level, just about every day.

In my spare time (whatever that means) I photograph a lot of the music scene in NYC. I love the small venues, the passionate crowds, and the depth and intimacy of a live show.

In the next few years I see myself:

TRAVELing: Spain, Japan, and New Zealand are all on my bucket list

WORKing in a Vineyard: I have to experience the LABOR & LOVE of working a harvest at least once in my life

HAViNg My own PHOTO Show: This is just BEYOND Overdue

CLIMBing a Mountain. I Miss Hiking since being immersed in the City. Oregon & North Carolina are in the mix for this year

DEVELOPing My Palate: Hitting up more of the NYC Culinary Scene Is always on the mix.
I’m really good at
Photography -

Listening, cooking, being punctual, drinking wine, cobra pose, sarcasm, extremes, collecting an array of music, talking with my hands, restructuring your fascia, creating the perfect ambiance, wearing-out boots, educating your unknown whiskey palate, mood lighting, wearing black, pushing through the pain, being honest, playing with fire, finding the esthetic moment...
The first things people usually notice about me
Eyes: Constantly changing between the color realms of bluish-green-purplish-grey (Apparently they are like mood rings)

Tattoos:Currently have 7 pieces

My Intensity & Passion
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Oh Pure & Radiant Heart, The Soul of Rumi, The Age of Missing Information, Imperial Ambitions, Reading Between the Wines, Eating Animals, Air Guitar, Cassavettes on Cassavettes...any works by Richard Brautigan, William S. Burroughs, Kurt Vonnegut.

Movies: L'avventura, Encounters at the End of the World, Blue, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, Talk to Her, Summer Hours, Red Desert, All the Real Girls, PINA, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, A Bout de Souffle, 2046, Collapse, the Bachelorette, 8 1/2, Volver, Magnolia, Koyaanisqatsi, Francis Ha, Dirty Wars, Beau Travail, etc, etc, etc...anything by Antonioni, Almodovar, Kurosawa, Errol Morris, The Cohen Brothers, Wes Anderson, Werner Herzog, Wim Wenders, Truffaut, PTA, Julian Schnabel, Claire Denis, Michel Gondry, Albert Maysles....

TV: GIRLS, 6 Feet Under, The Office, True Detective, Homeland, Enlightened, VEEP, Real Time w/ Bill Maher, Grey's Anatomy

Music: Joy Division, New Order, Bonobo, Portishead, Sonic Yputj, The Stone Roses, Weekend,The Black Keys, The National, the Black Caillacs, Mogwai, RJD2, The White Stripes, DJ Shadow, Kid Loco, Interpol, The Black Cadillacs, The Rapture, The Kills, TV on the Radio, Telefon Tel Aviv, Explosions in the Sky, Wolf Alice, Washed Out, Radiohead, Tom Waits, The Heartless Bastards, Pixies, Elliot Smith, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Yo La Tengo, Wolf Alice, This Band in Heaven, Henry Rollins, Black Flag, anything with Mike Patton, Movietone, A Place to Bury Strangers, Kruder and Dorfmeister, The Album Leaf, The Pack A.D., DJ Krush, etc ,etc, etc

Radio/NEWS/Magazines: A big NPR Junkie; FreshAir, Tell Me More, This American Life, etc etc - NY TIMES - Huffington Post - Bill Moyers - SEED magazine, The SUN Magazine, Lomography Society - CultureBully - FlickR - Nowness

Food: Japanese, Thai, Indian, Ethiopian
The six things I could never do without
Doubled and Tripled up....

My Camera/Headphones
I spend a lot of time thinking about
*A Change of Pace* Progressing into a new career/job * traveling to...* color temperature/light * Developing Rolls of Forgotten Film * what Herzog's next film will be * What next music venue I'm hitting up * the Pacific Northwest * this moment*
On a typical Friday night I am
Any of the following possibilities...

Working the Wine Gig / Home Working on photo projects / Eating Oysters at my local seafood joint / Catching a flick at IFC Center/ Hitting up a Music venue / Collapsing at home post insane work week with a little take out and Bill Maher's Real Time
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am my own worst enemy...I have about 30 rolls of undeveloped film in my wine fridge...I'm originally from Montana... I was the Captain of my soccer team in High School and won State my Senior Year...I love a good thunderstorm...I can get down with METAL...I own and Israeli Gas Mask...I'm constantly trying to find the balance...I want to be inspired
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you Love to Create, Stimulate, Grow, Saturate...

if you appreciate the power of analogue (film and music alike)

IF you can walk through a museum or park with the same inspiration

IF you would like to get down at a show and be absorbed in a symbiotic, dirty, sweaty mosh

IF you love getting tattoos

IF you want to go record shopping

If you want to marathon Antonioni films...

IF you can make me laugh

IF you are a lover of Wine and Whiskey

IF you want to rescue a Pittbull with me

IF you are a Music Geek

IF your are Scottish

IF you are a little broken on the surface, but solid underneath....

IF you want to CONNECT

(And more relevant to the next few weeks) IF you Love Futbol and Want to catch a World Cup Match with me