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32 • Astoria, NY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–42
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Dec 17
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)
For now I'm a buyer/manager at a wine and spirits shop in NYC, and it might be one of the more interesting jobs out there. I have had the opportunity to travel abroad, meet amazing winemakers and distillers, and connect with wine, spirits and food on a more intense level, just about every day.
In my spare time (whatever that means) I photograph a lot of the music scene in NYC. I love the small venues, the passionate crowds, and the depth and intimacy of a live show.
In the next few years I see myself:
TRAVELing: Spain, Japan, and New Zealand are all on my bucket list
WORKing in a Vineyard: I have to experience the LABOR & LOVE of working a harvest at least once in my life
HAViNg My own PHOTO Show: This is just BEYOND Overdue
CLIMBing a Mountain. I Miss Hiking since being immersed in the City. Oregon & North Carolina are in the mix for this year
DEVELOPing My Palate: Hitting up more of the NYC Culinary Scene Is always on the mix.
Listening, cooking, being punctual, drinking wine, cobra pose, sarcasm, extremes, collecting an array of music, talking with my hands, restructuring your fascia, creating the perfect ambiance, wearing-out boots, educating your unknown whiskey palate, mood lighting, wearing black, pushing through the pain, being honest, playing with fire, finding the esthetic moment...
Tattoos:Currently have 8 Pieces
I Wear Black All the Time
My Intensity & Passion
Movies: L'avventura, Encounters at the End of the World, Blue, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, Talk to Her, Summer Hours, Red Desert, All the Real Girls, PINA, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, A Bout de Souffle, 2046, Collapse, the Bachelorette, 8 1/2, Volver, Magnolia, Koyaanisqatsi, Francis Ha, Dirty Wars, Beau Travail, etc, etc, etc...anything by Antonioni, Almodovar, Kurosawa, Errol Morris, The Cohen Brothers, Wes Anderson, Werner Herzog, Wim Wenders, Truffaut, PTA, Julian Schnabel, Claire Denis, Michel Gondry, Albert Maysles....
TV: GIRLS, 6 Feet Under, The Office, True Detective, Enlightened, VEEP, Real Time w/ Bill Maher
Music: Joy Division, New Order, A Place to Bury Strangers, The Twilight Sad, Nirvana, Radiohead, NIN, Bonobo, Nick Cave, Portishead, Sonic Youth, The Stone Roses, Weekend,The Black Keys, The National, the Black Caillacs, Mogwai, Mastodon, UNKLE, Massive Attack, RJD2, The White Stripes, DJ Shadow, Kid Loco, Interpol, Explosions in the Sky, the Pack A.D., The Rapture, The Kills, We Were Promised Jetpacks, TV on the Radio, Bikini Kill, Telefon Tel Aviv, Explosions in the Sky, Washed Out, Tom Waits, The Heartless Bastards, Pixies, Elliot Smith, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Yo La Tengo,This Band in Heaven, Henry Rollins, Black Flag, anything with Mike Patton, Fugazi, Movietone, Kruder and Dorfmeister, The Album Leaf, DJ Krush, etc ,etc, etc
Radio/NEWS/Magazines: A big NPR Junkie; FreshAir, Tell Me More, This American Life, etc etc - NY TIMES - Huffington Post - Bill Moyers - SEED magazine, The SUN Magazine, Lomography Society - CultureBully - FlickR - Nowness
Food: Japanese and Thai are my solid choices...Any and All Seafood (Especially Oysters)...I would put a poached egg on just about anything...I love a solid broth... and I wouldn't survive without my green juice
Working the Wine Gig / Home Working on photo projects / Eating Oysters at my local seafood joint / Catching a flick at IFC Center/ Hitting up a Music venue / Collapsing at home post insane work week with a little take out and Bill Maher's Real Time
*I have about 30 rolls of undeveloped film in my wine fridge - I keep telling myself I'm not allowed to shoot another roll until I develop at least one roll (it hasn't worked)
*I'm originally from Montana - Kind of a NY/MT half bread with a Mother born in raised in Brooklyn and my father from a small town in South Eastern MT. I spent the first half of my life in open Big Skies and the other half in the Big City.
*I love a good thunderstorm - I wanted to be a storm chaser as a child. I don't think it was just out of a sense of adventure, but rather being a part of something that was equally terrifying. A way of conquering and overcoming the fear of uncontrollable things that are greater than ourselves.
*I can get down with METAL - Noisy, Dirty, Sweaty...I"ll take it all.
*I own an Israeli Gas Mask -
*I'm constantly trying to find the balance
*I WANT TO BE INSPIRED.
I NEED You to Be Better Than...
if you appreciate the power of analogue (film and music alike)
IF you can walk through a museum or park with the same inspiration
IF you would like to get down at a show and be absorbed in a symbiotic, dirty, sweaty mosh
IF you love getting tattoos
IF you want to go record shopping
If you want to marathon Antonioni films...
IF you can make me laugh
IF you are a lover of Wine and Whiskey
IF you want to rescue a Pittbull with me
IF you are a Music Geek
IF you are a little broken on the surface, but solid underneath....
IF you can handle reality and the intensity that comes with it
IF you want to CONNECT
IF You Get This: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vZ5QaqRJX_o
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