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Joycesaidyes

27 M Philadelphia, PA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:06pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Let's get this one out of the way: If you can't muster a meaningful message, you're too faint for my tastes. It's your seed, and who knows what it might blossom into if you plant it with a little effort?

Did that sound dirty? Maybe I'll show you my wild side one day. But first, for a gentlemanly period of time, I want to know you. Not in the biblical sense, but more so the "coffee and quip" variety. I know, us children of the 80's only basked briefly in the effervescence of person to person conversation (without the texts and e-mails and grindr messages interrupting). But I'll turn my phone off over coffee if you will, and we can figure it out together...

Whatever would we talk about though? I have no idea, but I pride myself in the ability to make conversation with anyone for at least an hour. (Having lived in Washington DC, a city I think plagued by illiterati and ideologues, this can be quite the feat). It doesn't matter what we talk about, does it? It could be banana slugs for all I care (though I'd gab about their mating habits), or Lady Gaga (is she heralding a post-modern moment beyond the Adams and Glasses of the music world?)...anything can be good to talk about if you're intelligent and reasonable about it.

If you want some material to get the conversation started, here:

-Education in this country (why are we the richest, but in the low 20's by global rank)?
-How Paris is lovely and India is life changing
-Black is the new black. Not orange. (aka: modernism in all its forms, art and architecture especially).
-Rachmaninoff failed to consider that not everyone's hands are freaking enormous. (Guess my instrument)!
-No one rivals Rachmaninoff. (Argue with me)!
-You think the Hudson Savory Cakes at Cafe Lift is the best brunch item EVER. (Argue with me more)!
-Sidecars are the best winter fruit.
-Wait, why did I pay all that money to go to Penn when my no-name undergrad education was better?
What I’m doing with my life
This question sounds judgmental, doesn't it? It's a sisyphean question; every time I figure out the answer that rock goes tumbling right back down the hill. But any existential crisis is sexy when you throw in some greek mythology.
I’m really good at
Nothing that I'd mention in front of my mother...
The first things people usually notice about me
This depends; are you a colleague or a callipygian conquest? Cuddling or conversing? I think ephemerally I'm unnoticeable; your average guy. But stick around and you'll find I'm smart, compassionate, and a good friend.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My only response is, "why isn't art a category?"

PS: Answer is, "modern."
The six things I could never do without
Eames-era furniture. Impressionistic classical. Travel. Just three things!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to introduce young people to the power of capital markets while traveling ostentatiously around the world. I also think a lot about moving to New York, a fact that portents malaise for those men too meek for Manhattan.
On a typical Friday night I am
trying, seeing, or doing something that make my fridays anything but typical...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
All I really want is a man who wants to have a lot of sex and talk about books and dance with me.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 19–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If going to the symphony and then hitting a dive bar after jives with your personality.

If you have an idea for an adventure.

If you want to go on a date.

I'd enjoy meeting someone brave enough to say they aren't attracted to me but want to be friends, too.