Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
INFJ. Nine on the enneagram. Soul number two.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, playing, exploring, experiencing! Embracing the mystery.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Indie, live music, cabaret, Fifth Element, Firefly, Pilgrim at
Tinker Creek, The Four Winds, Sherlock Holmes, mysteries,
Chronicles of Amber, Cadfael, The Name of the Rose, pretty much
anything by Paulo Coelho, Dorothy Sayer, any food that's not gross,
and the new Black Prairie station I made on Pandora!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
laughter, hugs, books, my (grown) children, ooops I'm up to seven
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sunny weather. What a strange adventure life is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
you'll have to wait till we know each other better
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You choose to laugh rather than cry, for the most part. You like to
go outside and do things. You'd like to go listen to some new
bands. You're looking for an authentic relationship that includes
true intimacy, rather than looking for intimacy without a
relationship. You're a man who is comfortable and solid in his
masculinity, and truly adores women. You care about our planet. You
look and feel young, can walk briskly around the block without
gasping for air. You can (and do) listen as well as expound. You
can be comfortable in the stillness, balancing activity with
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.