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40 F Nashville, TN

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White, Other
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Holy S&!!T! Is that Sinead O'Connor on OKC?! Nope, it's just me and I am far less controversial.

My friends would say that I am true to myself, supportive, grounded and have the sense of humor of a teenage boy. Seriously. I don't understand people who are offended easily. I mean how can you NOT find movies like Superbad, Role Models, and Gandhi funny? Okay, maybe not Gandhi....but you get the picture.

I moved from NYC to Nashville almost 6 years ago and love it. It has one, and only one, of everything I had in NY but with less stress and struggle. Plus, it has given me the job of my dreams. I help people start college-prep charter schools in the neediest areas of Nashville and Memphis. That said, I am a busy woman. I have a career, an 8 year-old son who is awesome, my own place, etc. What I don't have is "a date on national holidays" (Can you name the film this line came from?)

I am looking to meet people and have fun. Really. That's it. I promise.* My philosophy is that I don't go out with anyone that I can't see myself being friends with. I consider any chemistry to be bonus. This does not mean that I want a random hook-up. It means that you have to want to go OUT with me, if you want the chance to stay IN with me. So if you want to grab coffee or a movie - preferably a comedy, let me know.

One more thing, despite the "girls just want to have fun" thing I've got going, (I am now dating myself in more ways than one :-p) I do have a strong philosophical side. I enjoy serious intellectual conversations with people who don't take themselves too seriously. :-) I am also someone who is genuinely interested in people and their stories. So while I have been known to partake in more superficial interactions from time to time, I prefer spending time with someone who is interested in a genuine well as sophomoric humor.

*This is true unless you happen to be so awesome that you compel me to be more serious. But that's on you dude! Though even then, I am still more interested in companionship than partnership.
What I’m doing with my life
living it deliberately.
I’m really good at
Exploring other people's perspectives.
Having philosophical conversations.
Being attentive to people
The first things people usually notice about me
My long, flowing hair...or lack thereof

My confidence and curves. That said, it has come to my attention that folks have widely varying definitions of fat, curvy, overweight, full-figured, etc. To get a sense of my size and shape, see my pirate picture. I am more comfortable in my body than many thinner women, but the fact is you have to be into fuller women if you're going to be into me. - I think that sounds a little dirty...Oh well! ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love film, stand up comedy, live music, any music that resonates with me, etc. etc.
The six things I could never do without
My amazing son
My eyebrow pencil
Meaningful work
What I've learned from experience
I spend a lot of time thinking about
whether my thoughts are worth thinking.

How my Buddhism informs my Judaism and how my Judaism informs my Buddhism.

The realization that some people I've posted with might have faked their LOL's. This is disturbing. I have always considered myself to be quite good at making people LOL. Now I am not so sure. If someone fakes their LOL's with me, how can they expect me to get any better? It's all about communication! ;-)

whether most guys realize that "full-figured" is a girlie way of saying fat. ;-)

The fact that so many respond to "the most private thing YOU ARE WILLING to admit" by refusing. It doesn't ask you to admit the most private thing you want to keep private! So why the refusal?
On a typical Friday night I am
With my son, with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you and Sir Mix-a-Lot are of like mind, we might be more than just friends. This baby's got back!

I am enjoying vanilla less and less.

I was first runner-up in New Jersey's funniest female contest for Gilda's Club.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like piña coladas and getting caught in the rain...