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JudeStJude

52 M Long Branch, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:46am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Optimistic and for the most part easygoing. I'm often mistaken for an extrovert but actually need quality time by myself to regenerate. I try to keep life in perspective: Overall, I feel blessed, so I try not to get too upset when I don't get a pony for Christmas.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a writer and teacher who has earned my living writing For Dummies books - yes, those ubiquitous books with the yellow-and-black covers - on mostly math-related topics.

Currently, working on an online education project with my nephew, who is a web developer. To me, this project feels more like a calling than a career.

I have an apartment near Dolores Park and own a house on the East Coast, so I currently split my time between these two places. I've also found myself spending more time in Italy these past few years, particularly Florence.
I’m really good at
A bunch of stuff, but foremost maintaining deep, lifelong friendships. I've known many of my friends since college or shortly thereafter. Others, I've met along the way, and happily they tend to stay around. As long as I meet one person in a year with whom I find a deep and lasting connection, well, then that was a great year.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What a quantum leap in worldwide education might look like.
On a typical Friday night I am
...entirely unaware that it's Friday night. I work from home, mostly in the mornings, but sometimes late into the night. While I like having fun, that usually doesn't involve a crowd, so I tend to spend Friday nights quietly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm neither a top nor a bottom, at least not until I really get to know a guy and feel truly comfortable with him. Until then, there are lots of other ways two guys can have fun together.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 31–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
...you're in your 30s or early 40s, are on the shy side, and like guys who are somewhat older than yourself.