Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Optimistic and for the most part easygoing. I'm often mistaken for
an extrovert but actually need quality time by myself to
regenerate. I try to keep life in perspective: Overall, I feel
blessed, so I try not to get too upset when I don't get a pony for
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a writer and teacher who has earned my living writing For
Dummies books - yes, those ubiquitous books with the
yellow-and-black covers - on mostly math-related topics.
Currently, working on an online education project with my nephew,
who is a web developer. To me, this project feels more like a
calling than a career.
I have an apartment near Dolores Park and own a house on the East
Coast, so I currently split my time between these two places. I've
also found myself spending more time in Italy these past few years,
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A bunch of stuff, but foremost maintaining deep, lifelong
friendships. I've known many of my friends since college or shortly
thereafter. Others, I've met along the way, and happily they tend
to stay around. As long as I meet one person in a year with whom I
find a deep and lasting connection, well, then that was a great
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What a quantum leap in worldwide education might look like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...entirely unaware that it's Friday night. I work from home,
mostly in the mornings, but sometimes late into the night. While I
like having fun, that usually doesn't involve a crowd, so I tend to
spend Friday nights quietly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm neither a top nor a bottom, at least not until I really get to
know a guy and feel truly comfortable with him. Until then, there
are lots of other ways two guys can have fun together.
You should message me if
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...you're in your 30s or early 40s, are on the shy side, and like
guys who are somewhat older than yourself.
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