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Jufran

42 / M / Straight / Single

Long Beach, California

His Details

Last Online
Jun 13
Ethnicity
Asian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Education
College/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English, Tagalog (Okay), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Thai (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm on here so that I won't have to be on here.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, enjoying down time, creating, dooing the do.
I’m really good at
-making people comfortable and to laugh at either me or themselves.

-deciphering a void and filling it.

- replying often and to anyone. I feel the courtesy is in order to whomever it is. Not very good at idle chat though.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure. Different people see different things. I'm pretty friendly and outgoing, I can be a little formal in a professional/ diplomatic way but for the most part people take a quick liking to me because I'm pretty laid back -I'd like to think.

On a physical level, I've been told that I look younger than my years (other than the silver creeping in).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books on rotation: My Booky Wook by Russel Brand, all 3 Junot Diaz novels, I love you but I'm leaving anyways by Tracy McMillan, Let my people go surfing, The Responsible Company, Malcolm X by Manning Marable, Hot Water Music by Charles Bukowski, plus a stack of books on the nightstand collecting dust. I'll get to them. I have a modest goal to finish at least 30 books this next year. The same 30 from last year and the year prior. Smh.

Movies: All Wong Kar-Wai movies, any Christopher Doyle shot film, The Princess Bride, Vicky Christina Barcelona, Amorres Perros, any flick with that Bernal kid, Javier Bardiem, Alejandro Inniratu...

Music: mash-up, reggae, house, soul, hip-hop, rock, 80s - I'm on anything right now. i have to mix it up. Good music is good music. I'll freak classical on occasion. Vivaldi rocks.

Food: Yes. i don't have dietary restrictions yet I claim I'm a vegetarian who eats meat. I can only eat with a spoon and a fork. It's mandatory. I get lost with just a fork. A knife is worthless. The spoon does everything up and beyond the slicer. I would vote the knife off the island in a heartbeat and take the super spoon any day of the week.
The six things I could never do without
top six essentials
1. my family (immediate and extended),
2. my puppy (APBT-his name is Oakland)
3. water- drinking (Kangen) and the ocean
4. good health
5. good people
6. good conversation/good laughs/happiness

top material things
1. surf/surfboards
2. bicycles
3. computer/internet
4. music, movies, books
5. ice cream maker
6. kitchen gear- chef's knife, stove, blender, pots/pans
7.underwear
8.
...
Seriously, who can stop at six?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-What food to buy, cook or eat next.
-Bike riding
-Surfing
-Being socially responsible through business
-Leaving a legacy
-Food labels and labelling
-Pet rocks or the invention of my pet rock
-Microbiology
-Time travel
-Gardening, or at least starting one
On a typical Friday night I am
walking my dog, watching a movie or having dinner - I work Saturdays. Saturdays are my Fridays in which I stay home and rest to play in a basketball league ass crack of dawn on Sunday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like spicy food. Translation: I have a spicy butt.
Jk. That's not private. Not anymore, anyway.

If I must play along, I used to have long hair but I donated it one cold winter morning when I decided someone could use it more than me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–51
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, activity partners
You should message me if
-you would like to be friends-first. It's like health, if you don't have that, you have nothing.

-you are secure in your skin, a strong sense of self and have a good sense of humor. With that said, if you don't have a behavioral disorder or medicated (or need medication) don't be scurred.

-would like to go surfing in the morning, bike riding or share cooking recipes. I'll take a hike, go sailing, archery or the gun range if that's what floats your root beer.

-I message you, (its sad to even day this) because then you would be courteous to reply yay or nay. Sorry about the boys on here and your sh:t experience(s) but it's ok, I'm one of the normal ones.

-you can get past my dribble and still want to message me.